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How do you let a guy know you’re interested. I recently reconnected with one (and I had a crush on him in the past) but I’m not sure how to let him know I’m available to ask him out
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Anonymous 4d

Ask him on a date? If u feel the vibe is there why not

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Anonymous 3d

I agree with what #1 is saying, if you like him, it’s time to put your big girl pants on and ask him out. You don’t have to get in one knee and buy him flowers. We just mean take the initiative to ask him on a date. Something chill like, “hey, I’ve been thinking about you a lot and I honestly think we could be more than friends. I like you a lot for XYZ.”

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Anonymous 2d

I’m a girl but if you wanna avoid crazy rejection js say smth like “yo this may be kinda weird but would you ever wanna go out on a date or smth? I totally get it if not I just thought I’d put it out there” Obviously adjust for your own speaking style but if you make it kind of a bashful but honest question of whether or not he’d be interested I think it could be chill— if he says no then you already prefaced that it’s no biggie and hopefully wouldn’t feel like as much of a “rejection” 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 3d

Who cares if you get rejected it’s not the end of the world if he rejects you then you just move on, instead of being in this limbo of unknown

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

I want him to ask me and I tried throwing in out there (for example I have no plans on valentines) but he didn’t take the bait

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I mean if ur not gonna use ur words idk what other advice I can give. Perhaps u don’t like him enough? Typically when I feel that way I end up thinking that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

I don’t want to get rejected and I feel like a girl asking a guy is desperate

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Then you prolly don’t like him enough would be my guess

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

To risk being rejected? Probably not

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Then move on would be my advice 👍

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

This is such a wild mindset. Instead of being rejected you’d rather reject yourself from it? Just ask him out bro you can only benefit 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3d

Or at least invite him to something 1-1 and try to flirt a little? Like idk u gotta escalate a little at least u don’t have to go even to a full date right away

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