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Is a girl wanting to wait to have sex a turn off? Like not cause of religion but because she wants to wait to get to know you better instead of hopping into sex
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Anonymous 23w

If it’s communicated well, I am the same way. If ur just being coy and not having a conversation then it will get frustrating

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Anonymous 23w

Any guys that runs from that is just using you or has his head where his dick is

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Anonymous 23w

I’d honestly prefer that

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Anonymous 22w

I waited for like 9 months for my ex. I regret the girl, but not the decision

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Anonymous 23w

I say no but do beware that we do hope to get there as some point. Of course it doesn’t have to be on the first or second date but… long term, it is a must for many guys

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Anonymous 23w

Sounds good

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Anonymous 23w

No

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Anonymous 23w

It’s not a turnoff if a girl genuinely wants to wait to get to know me better or until she feels comfortable, but if she is playing mind games or waiting to have sex as a manipulative or bargaining tactic than that is a turn off.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23w

Honestly good to know. I feel like it’s me being like a prude but I just don’t wanna hop in the first date and fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

If they call you a prude, they’re just acting entitled. You don’t owe any man your body.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 22w

What do you mean by being coy?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22w

Like ur asking for the definition of the word?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 22w

Yeah. English is my second language and I genuinely don’t know what being coy means… 🫠

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22w

No ur fine I just didn’t know what u were asking. It’s like being reluctant to share details and being shy and modest

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 22w

I don’t understand how it’s frustrating if they don’t owe you their body?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22w

Never said they did? I said would be frustrating if they are being coy and unable to communicate about sex.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 22w

If they just constantly dodge the questions/conversations it would feel like being led on/not mature

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 22w

But how is being coy the problem? the problem is really just lack of communication

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22w

Coy = being reluctant to share information

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 22w

Then that’s the issue, not being shy and modest

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22w

I gave u the definition bro why are u arguing 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 22w

I didn’t say shy and modest, I said coy, which includes that but is mainly about withholding info, which I said!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 22w

You used any and modest to describe coy as well earlier. Thats what I was referring to

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22w

Shy*

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22w

That is part of the definition yes, but not the full

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 22w

The statement just implies that being shy and modest is inherently bad and it isn’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22w

No ur just extrapolating and looking for an argument imo. I was just giving a definition to #5

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 22w

I know, I’m the one who initially asked for it. I’m trying to have a discussion that you are taking as an argument

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