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I think my bf is going through something but I’m not sure. He has been so distant lately. I love him and don’t want to lose him but it’s killing me that he is shutting me out. What can I do to support him? I really love him so much
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Anonymous 1d

He might be purposefully distancing himself from you. you need to have a conversation with him about it.

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Anonymous 1d

Talk to him

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Anonymous 1d

Something you usually do to make him feel loved. Cuddle with him? Bring him a treat? What’s his love language?

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Anonymous 23h

Tell him this, and let him know you care about him and are there for him if he ever wants to open up.

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Anonymous 1d

Break up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

But why?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

I did tell him this and he didn’t respond to my text. I asked him if was doing ok and he said yea why. And that just made me confused. Why would you ask “why” if you just told me last night you were going through something?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Maybe he meant like what was your intention of asking? Like was it out of care, concern, or something else?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9h

Hmm maybe. I mean did ask cause he was being a bit dry with me but I also wanted to check in , you know ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6h

Maybe he is… I feel like he is just communicating with me right now cause he feels like he has too. I’m going to see him tomorrow. I’ll see how his vibe towards me is

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