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Does anyone actually know why this is?
6 upvotes, 21 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Men. "Does anyone actually know why this is?"
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Anonymous 5w

Bc almost all the questions can be answered the same. Just ask them.

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Anonymous 5w

Some of the questions asked here can be very dumb (same over on ask women too). Like “why do men cheat” uh same reason as women that cheat, it boils down to them being a bad/immature person

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Anonymous 5w

I mean I think I can perhaps come off as blunt or tactless when answering questions but I don't want to come off as condescending (unless it is obvious ragebait where i will just call it stupid)

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Anonymous 5w

Let’s be real a lot of questions here are kinda stupid/redundant

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Idk if thats actually an answer to this question though?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Im more so asking why it feels like the responses I get on here are extremely judgy and sometimes rude?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I can definitely understand that. For me however I feel like sometimes I am getting treated the same way as the people who ask those kinds of questions

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Some people are just dumbasses unfortunately or think you’re not being genuine

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Yea unfortunately. Thank you for your response!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I’m dying lmaoooo. Look at Ask Women; literally one of the most toxic channels on here 😂😂😂😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

If you can ask questions in the right way it really isn't that bad. I wanted to know more about how women view the negative affects of consuming smut "literature" so instead of asking directly i just asked how they felt about it in comparison to pornography, with 0 toxic comments

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 5w

Thats fair, love the self awareness btw, can't get much of that anymore 😭 emotional intelligence is an amazing thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I wouldn't really know, don't frequent this community anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

It's really not. If it is it's because of the constant perverts or incels posting or commenting in that community. Let alone the fact that its not a college only group like this one (the youngest to join the group is 12 years old)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Plus im not saying this entire group is toxic I am just talking about mine and a few other women's experience in this group

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Granted that is not always the case, as whenever I ran two poles regarding whether or not body count should matter and another asking if, as a woman, you would lie to a man about your body count got some pretty negative responses that I feel were seriously concerning.

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 5w

and it's not like these polls came out of nowhere and make fun of women for their views on body count, they were both in response to a concerning message that I saw on Ask Men where I wanted to see if these opinions, that it is ok to lie about your body count or that you would lie about your body count, were genuinely prevalent or not.

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 5w

as a women who was there for ur body count questions don't act like it wasn't rage baiting. you just just shamed and then argued with the women in the comments bc you didn't like their responses.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

I intentionally avoided shaming people for their body counts, and yes, seeing the majority of women said they have and will continue to lie to their partners was an upsetting response.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

Id say girl talk is worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

Like almost significantly worse! Cant even survive there as a woman and one of the mods their is a weirdo

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