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Ok so I go to school in Alabama and I feel like I've just given up on the love life and men in general. It's like they only want extremely skinny chicks who look like models. I know Im not ugly but im not a 10/10. I feel I won't be finding love in college
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Anonymous 10w

alabama is like 40% obese, is the disparity between general alabama and the universities that strong

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Anonymous 10w

Another woman who only goes for frat guys and thinks all men are like them because of it 🙄

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Anonymous 10w

I’ve known girls who think they’re fat that men would fight to the death in gladiatorial combat over. Tho I will say there’s a big difference between having a tummy and being unhealthy/obese

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Anonymous 10w

Tragic

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Many men like chubby, idk about the south tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

I'm not chubby tho I'm like a size 4 but the like 00

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

That is great then lol, idk I’m not from bama but seems ur body is great 👍 perhaps join clubs to meet ppl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Yea maybe that's the move cause frat men ain't cutting it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Lmao that’s ur problem lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Oh you were trying frats? No wonder lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

frat guys are the worst usually so tht was your problem from the start trying to go for them 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Bro even the ones who aren't are still the same way

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

At least so far

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

I mean I have tried outside of frats too and they seem to be just as bad it's just that the frat guys were always around since im in a sorority

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Do u ask men out or wait to be asked?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Both

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Good, just gotta keep trying 🤷‍♂️ I’m like 2/18 on getting a first date in my life but I don’t blame women, just gotta keep trying

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10w

Yup, OP you will be ok, ur valid for ur feelings and rightfully upset. But u will find ur person and def deserve to find someone who finds ur personality and body attractive (personally i do love some chub so ik we exist. ik u said size 4 so im not calling u that but trust u will be fine)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

It’s the older generations that are obese, not many people our age are anywhere in the US

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 10w

Think about how often you see an obese person the same age as you in every day life. For me it’s once a day or less

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 10w

source: cdc brief 2020 the difference is not that vast; your perception of obese vs, like, super morbidly obese may be off

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

That’s actually kinda interesting. I feel like I see a lot less obese young people in public, but I guess the stats say otherwise

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