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If a guy keeps pointing out how short I am and how he can “just pick me up and carry me” is that hitting on me? It’s like. Every conversation.
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Anonymous 1w

That’s red flag 🚩 creepy

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Anonymous 1w

Lowk I only think that about people when I feel lovey dovey but I never say it cause I feel creepy

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Anonymous 1w

Yes. Saw in your reply this guy is taken. Avoid, consider sending his girlfriend a hey girly text

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Ty sm. He’s def creeping me out bc it’s constant, I literally met him this semester and he has a gf (also more stuff he does is just… off) but idk if it’s flirting and I need to warn her or smthn so I thought I’d ask what guys are thinking when they say that stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I think I’ve said that one time but only to my actual girlfriend and she didn’t seem to like that idea so won’t be using it again. Over-popularized on social media and in media that literally sweeping someone off their feet works, but that’s just my experience 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Can do, will do! Wanted to make sure I was reading the situation right before doing so but I don’t have tolerance for dudes who do this kinda stuff.

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Anonymous replying to -> pleasure.pirate 1w

Thank you for confirming my suspicions 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Anytime it feels like someone’s fetishizing you it probably is weird behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> pleasure.pirate 1w

I’m not even that short, either so it just feels stupid to point out?? I’m very close to the average height for women in America like I literally have a friend in one of the classes I have with him who’s shorter than me 💀 Def gonna tell his gf though and tell him to fuck off now that I know it’s 100% weird

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