Ask Men on Sidechat | Would it be wrong for me to break up with my bf because his parents want him to get a job but he refuses. Meanwhile I worked while he’s been at home doing nothing he’s been “looking” for a job for 6 months ?

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Ask Men 13h

Would it be wrong for me to break up with my bf because his parents want him to get a job but he refuses. Meanwhile I worked while he’s been at home doing nothing he’s been “looking” for a job for 6 months ?

Anonymous 13h

Yeah if his lack of action bothers you about his personality its not gonna last long

Anonymous 13h

if he's a bum it's not wrong to break up with him

Anonymous 12h

I would figure out why he hasn’t been successful in getting a job? People with degrees are trying and can’t get one, if he’s not in school then maybe he’s just scared to work a dead end job. As his Gf you should encourage him to start for discipline and consistencies sake. Share the benefits you have found from working, etc. stop treating him like a problem and he will probably feel strong enough to go and do what he’s gotta do.

Anonymous 13h

how old is he?

Anonymous

#1 13h

19 about to be 20. He has a good vehicle so he has a way to work

Anonymous

#2 12h

This is a ridiculous judgement of a teenager

Anonymous

#4 12h

Backstory , his family is successful but as he growing up they want him to start being more independent. He was getting almost 200 a week while we were in school last semester from his grandma but she still wanted him to get a job my place of work was hiring but he didn’t want to work there . So now that he’s home he can get a job . He doesn’t want to work any in person job because he’s embarrassed that he has to work

Anonymous

#4 11h

no he’s almost 20 he needs to have a job

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Anonymous

OP 2h

Yea that sounds like classic victim bum mindset. If you do decide to leave him, you should at least tell him that’s why, it’ll hopefully motivate change. An ego like that won’t get him anywhere