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Ask Men 11h
this guy tells me he doesn’t want anything serious but then during a drunk heart to heart (he was drunk, not me) he kept telling me how he wishes he could understand me more and that i confuse him. I CONFUSE YOU?? YOU CONFUSE ME
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Anonymous 11h

not to mention, once he hits a certain level of drinking, he gets so beyond flirty and talkative. it’s almost once he has a drink in him, he stomachs the courage to actually text me

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Anonymous 10h

Oh man, I'm going through something similar with my crush right now, and I'm very confused by it too so I totally get where you're coming from. Really sorry you're dealing with this and hope you can get some clarity from him soon

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Many such cases, you should just block him but from the sound of it you like the attention and aren’t going to do that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

how long has yours been going on?? mines been since late july/early august 😔 god this stupid 19 theory caught up to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10h

if we both wanted something long term, it would happen. we both want to see each other but don’t want anything serious. but when he’s drunk, he says otherwise. it’s confusing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

I gathered that much, I think this is a case of sober thoughts being drunk words and you should jus leave ain’t no dick on planet earth can possibly be worth putting up with all that idc idc idc

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

For us, it's been about a month since this back and forth between us, but we've also been good friends for a long time! We met many years ago

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Also, sorry it's been going on so long for you all!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

i can’t imagine having already known them, that’s another level of gut wrenching. my guy and i met through friends in late july/early august and it’s been going since then

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

I appreciate that a lot, but I think the kinda situation you are in has its own challenges too so sorry to hear this is going on!

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