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Ask Men 16w
how do i get over never having a girlfriend in my whole life?
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Anonymous 16w

Monasticism

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Anonymous 16w

talk to women

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Anonymous 16w

By getting over whatever conditioning made you feel that your sense of self worth is tied to how many women you can woo in how little time, or to being in a relationship. Cuz frankly, this isn’t something that should be weighing on you (and many other people, for that matter), but it does while serving you ZERO purpose.

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Anonymous 16w

It’s all about how you carry urself and treat others. Unironically you can be a 4.5 out of 10 and push that to a solid 8 with nothing but changing how u act around girls

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

you say that like it’s easy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

bro what? if youre on a college campus you can just go up to any girl, give her a compliment on her outfit, and start a conversation. theres also apps you can download that are specifically meant for talking to women

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

You are way oversimplifying it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

conversations are always extremely awkward like i have no idea what to say

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

a great way to talk generally is to ask questions. if youre interested in someone you are generally gonna be curious anyways. also i am acknowledging there is a huge mental hurdle when it comes to approaching but u gotta rip that bandaid off sooner or later.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

It is that easy. When your intent isn’t solely to date them.

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 16w

Going monk mode rn

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Anonymous replying to -> inphochewated 16w

i don’t talk to women just to date them, but that doesn’t change anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16w

i legit have no idea how i’m supposed to be acting around girls for that to happen tho

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Anonymous replying to -> inphochewated 16w

is wanting a relationship something people get conditioned into?

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