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Are there men who aren’t sadistic and weird and actually want to make women feel good rather than wanting to put women in pain like a really badly filmed porno
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Anonymous 1d

No

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Anonymous 1d

Btw what #1 said is completely sarcasm for anyone who’s head that went over

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Anonymous 1d

Yes we exist, but we get no play

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Anonymous 10h

Of course there were men who are like that. Of course, if you’re fucking them within the first five minutes of meeting them there’s no way for you to discern that beforehand. Make good choices.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Not a single one

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Damn bro beat me to it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

No shit jackass

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Mansplaining the obvious

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Hey, you came here with the obvious question, don’t bitch at people for giving the obvious answer.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I was tryna find a man like god damn. Using the word bitch j goes to show that ur a dickhead

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

🤷‍♂️ 🕺

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

You lead with calling someone a jackass for answering your question. Don’t dish it if you can’t take it. No wonder you haven’t found a man.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

Lmao you’re funny. Just broke up with my boyfriend of 9 years because of how he treated sex like it was for himself and enjoyed putting me in pain. And yes I called that guy a jackass cuz he was mansplaining like a tard

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

why are you getting pissed at us because your ex was a shitbag? obviously there’s better people around

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22h

I was asking if any men aren’t into sadistic shit because as we were breaking up he literally wished me luck and said that no guy out there isn’t into hurting women during sex. That’s why I asked and yall keep coming at me like condescending niggas

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

Damn, and you spent 9 years with that loser? Ouch. Now I just feel bad for you. Also none of us came at you, you lashed out at a guy for giving you the answer you wanted to hear. So then we told you to knock it off.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

Why the fuck would you spend 9 years with him

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22h

It started the past 6 months. He had been watching porn behind my back and I could tell because of how he started acting like he was in a constant porno with me. He’d say certain sexual things alluding to how he likes hurting me and that’s kind of when it clicked that no husband of mine would ever enjoy putting me in pain for his pleasure

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Well, tell him we said all guys aren’t into that, he’s just a porn-addled loser.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

A little clarity never hurts, I’ve seen plenty of people take more absurd statements at face value before. Clearly you’ve been hurt by your ex, and it really sucks that it happened, but that does not give you the right to hurl hate at random men. You’re unlikely to be treated with good faith if you’re coming from a place of judgement and anger

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