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How important is it to agree with your partner on everything? My boyfriend has opinions on literally everything, from political to cultural to moral, and it's hard because it's humanly impossible for us to have the same view on EVERYTHING.
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Anonymous 10w

The whole point is you shouldn’t agree on everything, it’s gotta be imperfect

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Anonymous 10w

You’re never going to agree on everything.

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Anonymous 10w

Agree on values and general lifestyle things but as far as everything else it doesn’t matter if you disagree.

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Anonymous 10w

Everyone has “opinions” on everything. Of course you aren’t going lineup 1-1 on everything. The only way you can really lack an opinion is if you just are unaware of a topic to begin with.

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Anonymous 10w

Should agree on the big stuff at least. Wouldn’t worry about the smaller stuff.

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Anonymous 10w

i think as long as you align on large lifestyle aspects it doesn’t matter, agreeing on everything is literally impossible if he disagrees, he probably just wants you to agree with him, not necessarily just have the same views if that makes sense

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Anonymous 10w

Tbh he sounds a bit insufferable

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Anonymous 10w

You MUST agree on the things that matter… for example, I’m a Hispanic catholic. So my partner cannot the a racist Maggot. And can’t actively support abortion.

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Anonymous 10w

Like I’ve never once heard him say a bad word against minorities but then he also has mentioned “gay race communism” so like????

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I know the type exactly, I have a friend who’s like that. Not bad people but if it agitates you at all now it will even more when you disagree on ANYTHING.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I have no clue what it means, but I’m scared to unpack it

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 10w

This coming from a guy who also loves other cultures and wants to learn as many languages as possible to further connect with understand and appreciate others

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