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Ask Men 1w
is it weird i kinda want to date someone boring? like not in a way where like he can't hold a conversation but i want to be the more exciting one, kinda like Carl and Ellie from Up.
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Anonymous 1w

I mean sure but don’t be surprised if they don’t enjoy the same things u do

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Anonymous 1w

No that dynamic is honestly my favorite

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Anonymous 1w

Such an opposites attract moment, one half of the relationship is crazy dance in the rain energy the other half is the draw a warm bath to soak in, with grilled cheeses and soup after. Sometimes boring is just a safe space to return to 🥰

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Anonymous 1w

No

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i feel like that wouldn't be a concern. By boring i mean more like introverted ig.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Those are not synonymous 🗿

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

i don't really mean boring to describe him as a person more that he just doesn't have as hyper active off a personality as i do. Boring was probably the wrong word in hindsight.

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Anonymous 1w

yes exactly and yeah i've started to realize dating ppl similar to myself ends up in extremely arguments

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