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Does being nice mean anything these days I’m never much of a judgmental person and I try to go out of my way to be polite and stuff do guys notice that and if so does it make them any more attractive to you
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Anonymous 3w

Ya totally! Rarely however do i read into it at all though so if you want to attract someone romantically you may want to be more forward

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Anonymous 3w

It’s an active detriment and you should work on that if you intend to date someone long term

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Anonymous 3w

It’s nice being kind. I think most guys will feel “good” for a lack of better words if you are nice to them. You may have guys that overthink it, guys that don’t view it as anything special, and guys that view it as consent 🤮, but I would say being nice is attractive.

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Anonymous 3w

The good guys appreciate it. The ones who are just trying to get something else besides a respectful connection won’t care either way

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Anonymous 3w

We notice if a person is kind and friendly, sure. And yes, it usually helps us feel more attracted to you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I mean like in general like not just to the guy but to other people as well I try to be kind to everyone especially in class and such but i’m just wondering if people notice that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Absolutely!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Oh you’re not a guy nvm it doesn’t make a difference

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