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a guy gave me his # and he was really nice but im not interested. should i text him to say im not interested but he seemed really nice and i liked his approach, or would that get his hopes up? i get so many weird approaches that i appreciated him
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Anonymous 4w

if i don’t text him i feel like it would discourage him when i kinda want to encourage him to keep the same approach

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Anonymous 4w

How would that get his hopes up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Honestly yeah just send a nice thing exactly like you described. It’s always nice when someone lets us know that we’re doing something right and eases the anxiety of trying again

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

It doesn’t sound like it’ll be worded in a way that’ll get his hopes up so I think it should be fine

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

well, i’ve had a lot of guys seem to think they can keep trying even if i say im not interested. so far he seems nice so id like to say he wouldn’t do that, but it is a common experience of mine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

If he’s nice he won’t do that

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