Ask Men on Sidechat | My gf and I were driving and we came across this sexy frat car wash (where shirtless dudes wash cars) and she asked if we should go. Ngl I felt offended/disrespected, cuz y would you want random half naked men wash ur car when u have a bf😭. Am I wrong?

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Ask Men 4w

My gf and I were driving and we came across this sexy frat car wash (where shirtless dudes wash cars) and she asked if we should go. Ngl I felt offended/disrespected, cuz y would you want random half naked men wash ur car when u have a bf😭. Am I wrong?

Anonymous 4w

I think its not worth blowing up the relationship over it, but I get feeling disrespected and I think it wouldn't hurt if y'all had a conversation

Anonymous 4w

Other way around and the average woman would begin beating you on the spot

Anonymous 4w

Am I the only one who would not have taken offense to this? It's a novel experience that's funny. It's not like she's gonna fall in love with the random car wash dudes by how they work a mf sponge. Y'all gotta unclench 🤣

Anonymous 4w

Just imagine if it has been a guy pulling into a car wash of women in bikinis. The outrage would be unanimous!!! The double standard 🙄😵‍💫🙄😵‍💫🙄😵‍💫

Anonymous 4w

Anonymous 4w

Idk it sounds funny

Anonymous

#2 4w

Conversation about what? I just said it felt disrespectful, what else do I say?

Anonymous

OP 4w

I think that's probably enough, then if she asks why or whatever y'all can talk about it. But letting her know is probably good, since I think this is the sort of line most people who really care about you would be chill with

Anonymous

#6 4w

Some people view these kinda things differently. I know one guy who went with his girlfriend to a strip club and she paid for him to get a lap dance. That was probably a bit too relaxed.