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I want to propose to my partner we are celebrating our one year anniversary (we were talking for 7 months before se started dating) would this be wrong (I’m a woman and don’t wanna mess anything up)
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Anonymous 19w

Talk to your partner about it, people have gotten married after a week, and been happy. People have gotten married after years and lasted 6 months, everyone is different

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Anonymous 9w

Honest question, are you living together? Cuz living togeather changes how people behave 1000% and I would never propose to anyone without having lived with them for a length of time.

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Anonymous 19w

Girl are you for real?? After only one year i couldnt even tell my ex was abusing me

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Anonymous 19w

More often than not yes

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Anonymous 19w

I mean I don’t see anything wrong with that, you know your own situation better than any of us, just go with the flow

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Anonymous 9w

On a planet where male crossdresser(s) post things like these on Yik Yak

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Anonymous 9w

Are you a female woman?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

I’m also gonna throw a big idea out there, and say a proposal should NEVER be a surprise. Like the time and place can absolutely be a surprise, but you should talk about getting married and the future before you just suddenly spring the biggest decision of their lives on them. It shouldn’t be a decision in the moment when they get given the ring.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

Hi we have lived together but I am currently in my final year of college which requires me to be on campus. We also have pets together and have discussed engagement so it wouldn’t be a surprise. He isn’t in the spot to get the ring I want so I got the one he wants

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

By working and saving all summer well he was working on saving to buy us a home together after I graduate

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Sounds like you’re ready and the green lights are stacking up! Goodluck 😉

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