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I feel like I’m constantly carrying conversations with men on dating apps and it’s so exhausting. Like how hard is it to just ask me stuff back? Why are y’all like this?
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Anonymous 5w

I can’t even get a match ….

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Anonymous 5w

Cause I get ghosted 🥀

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Anonymous 5w

This is an example

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Anonymous 5w

I’m trying my best 😔🥀

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Anonymous 5w

I always ask questions when I’m interested 🙂

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Anonymous 5w

They could also j be rly bad texters and may think they are replying well

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

So they are not, so why not unmatch?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Dude sounds depressed. Maybe give him some more time to open up? He’s probably used to women ghosting him within the first few messages so, maybe a self fulfilling prophecy , but he doesn’t take the convo very seriously at first

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Also, he did message you first, then he asked about you in the second msg, in your second message you didn’t even ask him what he does for work or anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Also asking him if he travelled for the holidays when he already told you that he wasn’t able to celebrate seems like you didn’t really read or take what he was saying seriously. He didn’t travel, he didn’t even celebrate. As he said, he was working.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

That’d be like me asking you what presents you got for Christmas after you told me that your family doesn’t celebrate Christmas lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I know what he does, he is a firefighter. He could have been working on new years and travelled for Christmas, idk

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