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Let me get some opinions.. my ex bf and I are talking again and he is coming home for thanksgiving soon. (He moved 6 hrs away for college&I stayed at our hometown college) he’s told me he completely lost count of all the girls he’s made out with.
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Anonymous 1d

And that’s fine I don’t really care bc we aren’t dating. But he mentioned wanting to kiss me while he’s home and I said that’s fine just go get an oral std test first. (They’re free on his uni campus) bc I am not catching a disease from all the girls he’s been kissing. He got defensive and mad at me cause I was worried about getting an oral std from him. Was I wrong to ask him to take 30 minutes to go get a FREE test to protect my health?

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Anonymous 1d

No that’s valid

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Anonymous 1d

I'm confused why you even slightly entertained his desire to kiss you?

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Anonymous 1d

Just block him and move on the only thing that happens from this stuff is bad stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

THANK YOU! He got so mad and like stopped talking to me. I was so confused cause he was so excited to see me when he came home and suddenly he is ignoring me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Sounds like a bad idea all around

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I feel like if ur gonna have sex/do things you need to be able to talk without shutting down and understanding and communicating (why I basically never do anything cause I shut down a lot lol)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Right?! We aren’t even gonna have sex I just know we were gonna make out! And when I brought it up he totally shut down about it! He even said we couldn’t even hug bc that was him “taking responsibility for his actions” BUT GETTING TESTED IS TAKING RESPONSIBILITY!!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

It does ik 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 1d

Idk man it’s a long story 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Why does everyone think he is mad for

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

? Mad for? Listen he may not be a bad guy but hes probably not someone you want to open your heart up to again.

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