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if you get soft midway through does that mean the girl is doing something wrong?
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Anonymous 1d

it can mean that but not always. if that IS why its kinda on him to bring it up to you though

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Anonymous 1d

Could be stress or like literally any other issue, but it’s usually very embarrassing so if he doesn’t want to talk about it, don’t push it because then he’ll be less likely to open up

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Anonymous 1d

Could be the guy is just nervous. Most of the time it’s something going on in his head that makes him either overthink or just get out of the mood. 80% of the time it’s the guy not the girl. But it is something to bring up and talk about if it’s an issue.

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Anonymous 1d

No

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Anonymous 1d

Yeah unless it slipped out and 😬 I’ve never had physically unpleasant sex. Could try asking if there’s something on his mind or if he’s feeling well. Unless he’s on gear or has hormonal problems.

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Anonymous 20h

Nah lowk a glimpse of anxiety like an assignment or smth could fuck me up. Js switch positions or make out for a bit instead

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Anonymous 1d

I’m not saying it’s porn. But let’s not rule it out either

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

what’s helpful for me to do in that case?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

A lot of the time it’s the men’s mentality and different things turn different people on so communication on what they like is best

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 19h

if it was porn he probably just wouldn't get hard at all if anything

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