Anonymous #1 12w

And when I say take care of your physical health, I don’t mean get skinny. I mean take care of your body for longevity. Lift weights, eat healthy, have activities you’re interested in.

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Anonymous #1 12w

I do all of those things, I guess for me I’m just really insecure about things I can’t control that make me ugly. Like my facial structure, my nose, my chin, my eye color. Stuff that I’ve seen the looksmaxer guys comment about all the time

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Anonymous OP 12w

i’m a woman but u dont want to date a looksmaxxer, they are incredibly superficial, and likely self-centered, insecure, or both. i encourage u to leave and/or limit ur interactions with looksmaxxing communities and the like, its not a situation that will make u love urself <3

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Anonymous OP 12w

I understand what you’re saying but like I said, the looksmaxers are on something else. Just don’t date one and you’re in the clear lol most guys are not like that. There are guys out there for you, it’s just a matter of time before they come your way.

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Anonymous #4 12w

I don’t want to date one but I’m just worried there’s truth to what they’re saying and they’re just saying the quiet part out loud as to what most guys are thinking but not saying to girls in order to not seem superficial

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Anonymous #3 12w

I guess that just conflicts with what I’ve seen from guys picking apart the way girls look all the time

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Anonymous OP 12w

looksmaxxers are all overthinking appearance way more than the average person. every person has a different idea of what is and isn’t “pretty”, and anyone who tells u that there’s only one good chin shape, eye color, hair type, whatever the hell else, is spending way too much time online and is likely putting common white/european features as the “best” ones and putting down others (which is a kind of white supremacy but that’s its own discussion).

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Anonymous OP 12w

basically no one person or extremely specific group of ppl can tell u what “most guys” think of as attractive, looksmaxxers are often incels who are bitter and want to tear women down

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Anonymous #4 12w

Yeah there’s been a specific type of girl I’ve seen floating around that are supposed to be what most guys want. I think there was even a Cameron Dallas video a few years back that talks about it too. Dark hair, blue eyes, freckles, button nose, and short.

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Anonymous OP 12w

There might be slight preferences for things like hair/ eye color, height, freckles etc. but those things don’t really bear at all on perceptions of attractiveness. It may be true that the “ideal” woman is a certain height but it’s also true that height doesn’t make a huge difference

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Anonymous #2 12w

Yeah I’ve been trying to be the best version of myself with the features I have I just can’t help but worry that some of those features don’t measure up and I’d still never be considered pretty

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Anonymous #2 12w

Like I see guys say stuff like this and it just sends me into a spiral because what if they think that kind of stuff about me

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Anonymous OP 12w

I saw that tweet too and thought it was crazy as a guy. She’s obviously attractive. For some reason people are always wildin out on Spanish and Portuguese twitter

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Anonymous OP 12w

Most men get no attention and are therefore perfectly happy with girls who, to put it bluntly, are not hideous

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Anonymous OP 12w

WHAT???? she’s literally stunning, literally just reinforces my point that this kind of man just wants to tear women down

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Anonymous OP 12w

that’s some BS i’m sorry, please don’t let an influencer promoting AI deepfakes in his bio tell u what “most guys” want, he doesn’t know anything except his own type

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Anonymous OP 12w

and anyone who genuinely thinks that way abt another person is not someone whose opinion should matter to u, talking abt someone that way just reveals that that person is extremely ugly on the inside

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Anonymous #4 12w

Exactly. OP should go to like target or walmart and see the women that actual men in the real world are dating. If men only wanted one type of woman no one would date and the human race would die out

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Anonymous #2 12w

yes please OP genuinely stop interacting with looksmaxxers online (or fuck it and just get off twitter, doing that was great for my mental health), and go to your local mall/target/grocery store and see the ppl around you. the opinions of a bunch of incels online isn’t reality

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Anonymous #4 12w

I see stuff like that as well as guys posting photos of fans at soccer games that are AI enhanced to be prettier. Like if that what guys want I’m literally cooked

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Anonymous #4 12w

If you’ve been on Twitter yk what I’m talking about

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Anonymous OP 12w

if these guys can only show what they want by getting AI to alter real ppls faces (which is a crazy thing to do), they’re never going to be happy. and no, i haven’t been on twitter, like i said getting off of it a few years ago was great for my mental health. stop taking the opinions of random twitter users as fact

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Anonymous #4 12w

If I took every fantasy someone presented seriously then I would assume I’d have to become a werewolf or vampire to be attractive to women. Guys drooling over ai women are not the ones you want or need to be dating anyways

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Anonymous #2 12w

I found it 💀

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Anonymous OP 12w

If it’s edited then that’s weird. But you can’t feel bad because you don’t live up to an artificial standard. You gotta look at how people actually look in real life, instead of photos that are edited filtered and touched up in a billion ways

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Anonymous #2 12w

I guess but wings or being a mythical creature is different than this. These are just facial features that are considered desirable to these guys that I don’t have.

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Anonymous OP 12w

Why would you let these guys make you hate yourself for what you don’t have instead of loving yourself for what you do have. I promise there are lots of guys who would think you’re enough

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Anonymous OP 12w

these dudes are irrelevant to you. they’re a bunch of internet trolls who like to pick apart the appearances of women who they don’t know for internet points among their fellow good-for-nothing trolls. protect ur peace, block all of these accounts so u don’t have to see them at least

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