Anonymous #1 7w

that’s why i’m asking lol, like i’ll get likes from dudes who have listed that they’re looking for a “life partner” and under kids say they want kids, and be conservative, while i have the “short term open to long” and “no kids” and politics as “liberal”. like what said to this dude that we’d be compatible😭

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Anonymous #3 7w

what qualifies as red flags to u? why not just read the whole profile to make sure u don’t miss crucial things like kids or substance use or politics? i’m not trying to start an argument to be clear i just want to understand

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Anonymous #4 7w

if there’s a major difference in like what kind of relationship ur looking for or another major compatibility thing like that, would u still like if u thought she was attractive? like obviously attraction has to be there, im the same way, but would u still like if there was a major mismatch somewhere else?

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Anonymous OP 7w

It’s a time thing, as guys, we don’t get matches as often as most girls would, so it’s more efficient to like the look first then invest

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Anonymous #3 7w

is it not disappointing to match with someone then realize that there’s a major dealbreaker for u that u would have noticed if u had just read the whole profile? would it not be more efficient to make sure that person is someone u could actually date before setting urself up for some expectation of at least conversation? like to me those are both really frustrating

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Anonymous OP 7w

Sure but then you just don’t continue the interaction. I don’t think you realize the statistics of being a male on a dating app, lots of us are used to things not leading to anything. The logistics simply aren’t in our favor

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