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how come yall never plan dates 😾 i’ll talk to guy on hinge and we have a great conversation etc and he’ll say “we should hang out” and i say “i’d like that :)” and then NOTHING!!! if i wanted a pen pal, id pick someone further away!! 😾🤬
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Anonymous 3w

Cuz either we can’t afford to take you where you deserve to be taken or getting you to say yes satisfies the craving and we can go back to working on ourselves

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Anonymous 3w

I always do

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Anonymous 3w

who’s y’all i took a girl bowling last night

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Anonymous 3w

Well since it’s a dating app I’d wager you’re not the only woman he’s talking to

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Anonymous 3w

I always find that whenever I ask for her opinion on what to do so we both are doing something we enjoy, I just don’t get responses

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Anonymous 3w

“Y’all”?!?! Homegirl, it ain’t our fault that you pick lil boys to flirt with. Date a man (23+) and see how quick that changes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

bless you good sir

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Jk I never go on dates 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

???? what 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

i would literally be fine with like coffee or ice cream or something but the lack of effort shows a lack of interest to me 😒 just rude tbh like why are we on a dating app if there aren’t gonna be any dates??? how exactly does that lead to a relationship???

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

me neither apparently 😢

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Men only want to date bc we’re lonely or we want to get married. Feeling wanted satisfies the loneliness. If he thinks ur cute but ur probably not wife material, then he won’t pursue it any further than validation (getting you to want to go on dates with him) It is rude but so is dating someone you don’t see a future with. Honestly I love coffee dates cuz u never really know until u talk to them. Idk it’s more logic than emotional and that can seem cold. I say move on and find someone better

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

what he literally doesn’t know me what makes you think i’m automatically not wife material. idk what ur problem is but can u fuck off tbh?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

U can be rude if u want but my comment wasn’t directed at you specifically… I don’t know you at all ofc I can’t make those claims

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

he’s not the only guy i’m talking to but is it so much to ask that we get off the stupid app and hang out in person so we can see if we click and move on if not? 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

bc you’re supposed to come up with an idea we’re tired of doing all the work 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I come up with ideas, i just also want her input, don’t project your issues onto mine 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

OP ur sounding kinda bitter. Its okay ur gonna find someone it’s just not him

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

i shouldn’t have to date some old guy just to have a decent date 🤨

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You’re calling 23+ old 😭 How old are you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

18

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Okay that’s young.

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