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Why do yall stare at girls and not approach. I’ve seen a lot of guys use the excuse of the RBF but like what else should I do when im just sitting there
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Anonymous 2w

The current culture has made it clear that it is inappropriate to approach people randomly unless they give clear signals

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Anonymous 2w

I have no fucking clue what to say.

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Anonymous 2w

Do it yourself if it bothers you that much

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Anonymous 2w

If I’m staring at someone I’m probably not even realizing I’m staring or trying to look at them, I’m probably just staring off into space and they just happen to be in the direction I was looking when I zoned out 💀

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Anonymous 2w

We don’t wanna make you uncomfortable by approaching

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

The staring is uncomfy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I’m asking guys. Bc you stared at me first

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I never look at women let alone approach, I think the reasoning has been stated by other guys a million times

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

What

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

1) women have made it very clear they hate it 2) women are often rude to men who approach 3) men literally get rejected 95% of the time

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

We want guys to approach instead of starting. I can’t vouch for number 2 but where did you get that statistic from?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

literally, if you’re going to make it a point that you’re looking at me… speak to me… or stop

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Yes lol. Guys act like it’s a viable option but I gre up thinking if you stare say smth

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

No not really. I mean do yall approach random people to say a compliment to them? To talk? Not just romantically

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Not really no. Maybe a complement sometimes but that’s only in passing so they can leave as quickly as possible

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Oh well that’s not normal. I think we need to be more social. But like it I wanna talk to someone I will. We are social creatures.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Obviously it’s not an exact statistic but it’s definitely somewhere in that ballpark. Ask any guy who approaches women

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Well maybe if it’s like intent staring, most I do is a glance 2-4 times max before I say yeah I’m too chopped and don’t wanna make her uncomfortable

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You may be surprised how few people talked to strangers

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Yeah it can be hard, I’m shy myself

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

It’s always intent staring

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Women can get rejected too? Also it depends on where, what we’re doing etc. I’ve been approached before and it wasn’t he right time.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Not nearly as often as men though, that’s for sure. Plus it’s not like women can’t just wait for men to come to them. And it doesn’t matter how well you approach, you’re still gonna get rejected 95% of the time

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I’ve been rejected too. Most of the times I’ve tried to approach. I find better success when guys come to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Well at least that’s an option for you. Women very rarely approach and when they do they usually go for the absolute best of the best men, which if that’s true for you may explain why you got rejected

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

No lol I’m better than them. They were cute to me and well kept but I’m better looking. I think girls usually are no offense . Also that charges for everyone

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