Why do yall stare at girls and not approach. I’ve seen a lot of guys use the excuse of the RBF but like what else should I do when im just sitting there
The current culture has made it clear that it is inappropriate to approach people randomly unless they give clear signals
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Anonymous2w
I have no fucking clue what to say.
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Anonymous2w
Do it yourself if it bothers you that much
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Anonymous2w
If I’m staring at someone I’m probably not even realizing I’m staring or trying to look at them, I’m probably just staring off into space and they just happen to be in the direction I was looking when I zoned out 💀
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Anonymous2w
We don’t wanna make you uncomfortable by approaching
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Anonymous#12w
The staring is uncomfy
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Anonymous#32w
I’m asking guys. Bc you stared at me first
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AnonymousOP2w
I never look at women let alone approach, I think the reasoning has been stated by other guys a million times
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Anonymous#32w
What
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AnonymousOP2w
1) women have made it very clear they hate it
2) women are often rude to men who approach
3) men literally get rejected 95% of the time
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Anonymous#32w
We want guys to approach instead of starting. I can’t vouch for number 2 but where did you get that statistic from?
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AnonymousOP2w
literally, if you’re going to make it a point that you’re looking at me… speak to me… or stop
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Anonymous#42w
Yes lol. Guys act like it’s a viable option but I gre up thinking if you stare say smth
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Anonymous#52w
No not really. I mean do yall approach random people to say a compliment to them? To talk? Not just romantically
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AnonymousOP2w
Not really no. Maybe a complement sometimes but that’s only in passing so they can leave as quickly as possible
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Anonymous#52w
Oh well that’s not normal. I think we need to be more social. But like it I wanna talk to someone I will. We are social creatures.
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AnonymousOP2w
Obviously it’s not an exact statistic but it’s definitely somewhere in that ballpark. Ask any guy who approaches women
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Anonymous#42w
Well maybe if it’s like intent staring, most I do is a glance 2-4 times max before I say yeah I’m too chopped and don’t wanna make her uncomfortable
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AnonymousOP2w
You may be surprised how few people talked to strangers
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Anonymous#52w
Yeah it can be hard, I’m shy myself
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Anonymous#12w
It’s always intent staring
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Anonymous#32w
Women can get rejected too? Also it depends on where, what we’re doing etc. I’ve been approached before and it wasn’t he right time.
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AnonymousOP2w
Not nearly as often as men though, that’s for sure. Plus it’s not like women can’t just wait for men to come to them. And it doesn’t matter how well you approach, you’re still gonna get rejected 95% of the time
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Anonymous#32w
I’ve been rejected too. Most of the times I’ve tried to approach. I find better success when guys come to me
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AnonymousOP2w
Well at least that’s an option for you. Women very rarely approach and when they do they usually go for the absolute best of the best men, which if that’s true for you may explain why you got rejected
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Anonymous#32w
No lol I’m better than them. They were cute to me and well kept but I’m better looking. I think girls usually are no offense . Also that charges for everyone