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How do I make myself more approachable at the bars? I’m not conventionally pretty (bigger midsize nd curly hair) all my friends are skinny nd I don’t want to be the only girl in my group not getting approached
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Anonymous 63w

I don’t wanna be rude but women telling you that you look great doesn’t necessarily mean guys think the same. My advice is just keep improving and control what you can control

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Anonymous 63w

Just go looksmax bro. Get on the mewing grind. Eat at a healthy deficit

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Anonymous 63w

That’s the thing I am losing weight I lost 40 lbs over the summer and I’m still dropping I’ve had a lot of girls I haven’t seen in a while come up and tell me I look great but guys still don’t even look at me

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Anonymous 63w

I wanna lose another 70 lbs at least

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Anonymous 63w

I just hit 175 today for reference

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 63w

If you go to 105 pounds, unless you’re 4 feet tall, you’re going to feel like absolute shit and gain back at least 20 pounds, WHICH IS HEALTHY. Also, there are absolutely guys out there who are into bigger women. I’m one of them.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 63w

If weight loss gives you more confidence and improves your mental health, absolutely go for it. But like all things, you should be consulting actual medical professionals who work in nutrition and with women regularly and doing calorie deficits in moderation.

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