Ask Men on Sidechat | thinking of getting a breast reduction.. wondering how/when i would even bring that up in a relationship and whether men would care abt the scars :/

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Ask Men 14h

thinking of getting a breast reduction.. wondering how/when i would even bring that up in a relationship and whether men would care abt the scars :/

Anonymous 13h

Would it be needed to bring it up? Tbh i wouldn't care ab scars and wouldnt being it up unless the person with the scars said smth

Anonymous 9h

In my opinion, this is no one's business but your own and it's your decision whether you wanna tell someone! Any guy who would question you if you do not feel comfortable talking about your scars is shitty and any guy who would judge you for getting a reduction if you told him the truth would be shitty too.

Anonymous 7h

I don’t think it really matters but being open is a green flag in a relationship so there’s that

Anonymous 7h

We love and respect

Anonymous 7h

if you want to bring it up i would mention it gently within the first week or two, just so explain any scarring. If you don’t want too, you don’t have too! your body your choice

Anonymous

#1 13h

so i shouldn’t mention it?

Anonymous

OP 13h

Its totally up to you. Why would you feel the need to mention it?

Anonymous

#1 13h

idk tbh ig when im in a relationship i feel like they have to know everything abt me and it would feel weird not to tell them. but also worried if i do im gonna get a shitty reaction like why would u do that and u would look better if they were bigger

Anonymous

#2 9h

I also think any guy who would judge you for this is gonna be very misogynistic and/or controlling and that is not someone you wanna be around