Don't try, if it happens it happens Trying to get it to happen intentionally is a bad idea.

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don’t pry for info and don’t react negatively when he does tell you things

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Open up about what?

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I would be VERY understanding and timid about it. As a man we get punished for it whether anyone wants to have that talk or not. I got left in my last relationship of 4 months after I opened up about a previous abusive relationship (it was going really well before that day)

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Time, not pressure, being understanding and kind

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Have his children, become a good mother, (show you possess the instinct to care for others) wait for 3 things to happen (hopefully not all at once): a family member of his to die, financial ruin, or a seemingly terminal illness to befall him. It is only in the face of great loss that men tend to “open up”.

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Ask him a question. We are literally that easy. Unless you’ve given him a SPECIFIC reason to lie we literally just tell the truth all the time as like the default setting

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