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This is prob a dumb question, if a girl told you at the beginning of dating/talking that she’d need to go slow in a relationship due to some prior negative experiences, would you still want to date her?
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Anonymous 56w

No. Been there done that.

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Anonymous 56w

Depends. Whats next and lesser the past

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Anonymous 56w

Like how slow and why

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Anonymous 56w

I wouldn’t want to bc it’s generally a sign that she has some self work she should do and probably isn’t completely ready for a relationship. If she’s been working on herself for like a year and it’s just been awhile that’s a different story but I think that’s the minority of ppl like this

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Anonymous 56w

The going slow thing is something i prefer, the negative experiences is what i would be concerned of. Depending on what that "negative experience" is, i might hold back from a relationship indefinitely.

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