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do men have an understanding of like “aesthetics” (clean girl, granola girl, etc. for example)? and if you do, do y’all feel like your type aligns with one of those archetypes?
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Anonymous 6w

no because obsessing over aesthetics is some of the most vain bs of all time lol no amount of aesthetic makes up for a dull personality so I would never align with something so superficial

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Anonymous 6w

please no more of this 🙏

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Anonymous 6w

Yeah absolutely. Although I think a mix of aesthetics is super attractive, like someone who’s an athlete who throws sick streetwear fits. Hard to find tho unfortunately 😔

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Anonymous 6w

I only care about cool girl vs not cool girl

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Anonymous 6w

I mean I’m not a man but ik my bf is rly into my style. He knows a shocking amount about it and i definitely think it’s part of what drew him to me

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Anonymous 6w

We do, at least the more online ones aware of Pinterest do. Personally dont dress for an archetype

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Anonymous 6w

i prefer the "artsy girl, tumblr girl" archetype

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

lmao, what makes someone cool?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

They are passionate and ambitious about things, they take care of themselves, and they’re respectful of others

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

noted

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

that makes sense! i guess the question is more about like someone type in personal style, but obviously there’s deeper stuff than that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I mean having preferences isn’t rly vain. Although you’re right it doesn’t make up for personality

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

didn’t say having preference was I said obsessing over aesthetics was…. not a big reader I take it

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

I think someone who has a really strong sense of self & expressed that through personal style is really cool! I like it when men care about things like personal style so I wondered if some men were the same!

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Anonymous replying to -> loverboy 6w

Yeah, archetype was definitely the wrong word

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Ah that’s fun! Streetwear is really cool & has cool history!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

But this person never said obsessing over, they were talking about preferences and you brought in obsession and vanity for no reason. You actually did make it sound like caring about it at all was obsessing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

As far as I can tell a few def are. Most of my male friends have unique styles and also like and take an interest in mine

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

that’s really cool! I think it’s fun when someone can share my interest in fashion & whatnot w me without making it seem like only a “girly” thing—i love Wisdom Kaye on instagram! his fits are amazing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Dude I made a joking post about trimming my shi as part of my spring cleaning and I had no less than 5 people hop in my dms

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

How you not a man but answering the question why you even in here 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6w

Idk I’m talking about men? I’m kinda answering for my bf who does not have yikyak,

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