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Not a question but men that text back right away>>>>> nonchalant mfs
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Anonymous 24w

If I saw the text, I have no reason to wait before responding. If I ever do wait before responding, I'll almost always forget, so it's not worth it.

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Anonymous 24w

I’ve been told the was “extremely clingy behavior” and have had women cancel date one on me because of it

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Anonymous 24w

What if im neither bc i have adhd and saw the text but didnt have a response at that moment and then completely forgot to respond later

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Anonymous 24w

If I wait it’s either because I’m busy or I genuinely can’t think of a witty response

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Anonymous 24w

Man, I just have adhd 😭 I literally just forget

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Anonymous 24w

Only do this if it’s being reciprocated. Don’t text back right away for her to leave you on delivered

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Anonymous 24w

I got called clingy for doing that so

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Anonymous 24w

Nonchalant men >>>>>

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 24w

Valid

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 24w

No no no

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 24w

Yes yes yes my least favorite thing is when my man starts crying in front of me that shit is so gross😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 24w

???? Respectfully, whats wrong with you? I baby my man when he gets emotional bc that’s MY LOVE and when he hurts I hurt.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 24w

He’s ur MAN he’s not supposed to do that😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 24w

HES A HUMAN BEING THAT WAS ONCE A CHILD JUST LIKE YOU? Is he not allowed to have bad mental health days or grieve? Bffr you sound like a narcissist w this mindset 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 24w

May I never have stank bitches in my inner circle who are incapable of empathy towards men

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 24w

WHY WOULD YOU HAVE EMPATHY FOR A MAN GIRL DO YOU KNOW HOW VILE THEY ARE???😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 24w

NOT ALL OF THEM ARE VILE! ABUSIVE ONES YEAH BUT GET OUT OF THE SOUTH AND DATE MEN FROM UP NORTH IN DEMOCRATIC STATES. THEY ARE ANGELS FROM HEAVEN

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 24w

I LIVE IN NEW YORK😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 24w

BITCH THIS IS WHY U DONT TRUSG MEN…..THATS A WHOREHOUSE OF A CITY. Go to Washington or smth

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 24w

EWWW THATS WHERE ALL THE TWINKS ARE😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 24w

Well I had this mindset and I ended up with an ex that broke my hand and was on testosterone and screaming at me 24/7. Rather have a sweet twink guy than a meat head asshole that will turn me into a shell of a human being

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 24w

Girl that’s just how all men are you look goofy as fuck glazing them rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 24w

imma glaze them bc u look goofy asf generalizing to this extreme and energetically by believing this you’ll continually attract shitty men your way like a magnet and keep the good ones far away from you bc you’re manifesting that they don’t exist in your reality

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 24w

It’s not clingy it’s genuine

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 24w

hate to see women falling in line with patriarchal gender norms, you’ve got some stuff to work through girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 24w

“I love to peg my man”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 24w

Tell that to other women then, idk what they want

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 24w

Can’t believe people like this are in relationships holy fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 24w

pegging is based af, gotta hit that bussy g spot

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 24w

i hope you learn to love instead of hate bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 24w

Why do I feel like you’re just a man trying to create division by making women look bad.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 24w

it really does read like that

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