Ask Men on Sidechat | When do you guys share shit? I yap A LOT and he doesn’t mind (even encourages it),but he’s not a yapper😔 Also, we talk casually about my sexuality (not the one you’re thinking of) but actually feel scandalous when we talk about his…how to remedy this?

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When do you guys share shit? I yap A LOT and he doesn’t mind (even encourages it),but he’s not a yapper😔 Also, we talk casually about my sexuality (not the one you’re thinking of) but actually feel scandalous when we talk about his…how to remedy this?

Anonymous 13h

that's just men sometimes. just keep trying and give it a lotttt of time

Anonymous 12h

Guys share shit when they feel safe with you. Guys learn early in life to put up walls, because people use shit against them to shame or control them. The more you try to pry, the tighter they’re going to lock down. But the more you’re vulnerable with them and make them feel loved, the more they can start to trust you and share things a little at a time