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not OP but im 5’4 and 130ish and wanted to make the same post..am i morbidly obese? ok maybe not morbidly obese but am i a fat fatty? i really want to be 110-118
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Would you consider a girl who is 5’4 and 115 pounds mid sized?
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Anonymous 3w

No???? Please tell me this is satire

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Anonymous 3w

Okay so I NEED to tell you something. BMI is based on male body fat distribution, not women. For us BMI means very little. I was considered by BMI “healthy” when I was 5’3 and 100 pounds when in actuality I was nearly dangerous underweight. You aren’t even close to being fat. You are in extremely normal weight for your size.

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Anonymous 3w

Yeah even as a man I know women's weight sits differently from a man. The person saying BMI is based on men is like 100% correct.

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Anonymous 3w

No. Not at all. My sister is 5’4 and 150 and she’s in great shape.

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Anonymous 3w

No that’s average

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Anonymous 3w

Not at all see my answer to OP

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Anonymous 3w

I had a first date girl who was 5’0” say she was 130lbs and I was kinda taken back by that, but when I saw her naked later she was just curvy imo. The number always sounds worse than it actually is

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Anonymous 3w

We can’t be serious

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Anonymous 3w

No

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

genuinely not i just hate my body :/

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

so sick of being average 😞

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Girl you are more than okay 🫂🫂🫂ive been there too

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 3w

ig its abt how ur weight is distributed/proportions

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 3w

AHHH i feel violated

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

unfortunately we are :/

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Girl ur fine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I wouldn’t call this midsize much less morbidly obese

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

A 130lb is really little though?

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 3w

I’m now 137 and 5’3 and I’m still considered small, so you are more than fine OP

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 3w

Yea she looked great, but I wouldn’t describe her as slim

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

It all depends on height and fat distribution but I would never say that 130 is large unless you are like- 4’5 and a child.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 3w

Yea ofc, numbers are a bad way of looking if someone is healthy or attractive. she was curvy in a really hot way, def not overweight.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 3w

yess ik ik bmi is very inaccurate, i dont havent really looked at it in a while but last time i did im pretty sure it was like in the middle of “normal” my issue is just w how i look, not so much numbers

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

🫶🙂

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 3w

but its not skinny either :/

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Kinda is

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I totally get it. It took me a really really long time to be happy when looking in the mirror and it’s still a struggle some days. I can try and give you some tips that I tried?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Yeah it kinda is

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 3w

I think these models offer a limited comparison bc they assume a general weight distrubution, the dude is kinda slouching, and they’re not wearing flattering clothes. I feel like many people at the weight shown would look skinny

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Lock in brodie you gotta be the change you wanna see

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 3w

sure

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

ok locking in ✅

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