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Ask Men 18w
Do i shoot my shot with the extremely awkward guy who i’ve only known for like a month or wait it out
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Anonymous 18w

Wait what out? What is it you think is gonna happen if you wait? You have no reason to think you’ll ever have a better chance, but you might well miss it by sitting around. Seize the carp

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Anonymous 18w

Not like your confessing your undying love, just ask him if he wants to hangout outside of work [and by that I mean ask him to do something specific] pub trivia, or going to an arcade or trampoline park, or something.

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Anonymous 18w

I would go as far to say that if you’ve waited a month to shoot you’re damn near late

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Anonymous 18w

Shoot

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Anonymous 18w

i’m trying to build up the courage to i’m just scared he’ll say no out of fear and we’ll still have to work together everyday

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Anonymous 18w

would i be better off just asking for his number?

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Anonymous 18w

if he says no 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

have some icecream, you'll have deserved the treat for doing something brave

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