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so do men really expect a woman to pick u up, drop u off, plan the date, AND pay for the date??
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Anonymous 5w

Don’t know where tf you’re getting that idea

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Anonymous 5w

We also expect you to make a blood sacrifice. And give us your SSN.

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Anonymous 5w

Isn’t it typically the expectation that men do these things?

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Anonymous 5w

We know our worth 💅

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Anonymous 5w

??

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Anonymous 4w

What? No. Of course not. But I mean yeah I’ll for sure put out if you do

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Anonymous 5w

if that’s happening it’s def a newer thing

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Anonymous 5w

I’m terrible planner that’s the only thing I’ll need help with is picking what we do I got everything else covered

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Anonymous 5w

Sounds like something that men have been doing and been expected to do

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Anonymous 4w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> sea_taco 5w

Fr

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Anonymous replying to -> sea_taco 5w

yeah that's the point of my post i fear

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5w

i mean yeah it's called being a gentleman, not being rude why shouldn't women expect men to act like that if they are expected to act like a lady?

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 5w

i didn't know you were gay

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Because many of them ain’t been and it’s the big 26, yall can have some damn agency from time to time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Bro who are you dating that still expects you to “act like a lady” its 2026, date someone who treats you like an equal 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

actual men... not boys. why does it being 2026 matter?? traditional dating dating is dying, and its because men aren't mature enough to be dating. if you were really taught by your dad or father figure that was the proper way to treat a woman then that worries me extremely

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

No it’s yall expecting too much

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Traditional dating is dying bc most of us agree it suxks. Those “actual men” you speak of are viewed as sexist pigs by most of us women. True a lot of men aren’t mature enough to date but that’s always been the case. I was taught by my dad and mom that a man should be an equal partner. My parents both did things for eachother, there was no role based on gender

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w
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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

🤫 I’m undercover at an all girls sleepover

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