Some are joking, ones who aren’t and genuinely enjoy it usually have poor relationships with their mothers or other female figures in their life.

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Ladies do NOT take notes, 99% of the people that say that are joking and the 1% are mentally insane

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Desperation for any type of opposite-sex attention/attraction, regardless of whether or not it is healthy or sustainable

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A male tendency towards self-deprecation as a coping mechanism for other unfulfilled needs, mostly emotional and social needs. “I want a girl that’ll kill me” because we’re lonely, so the thought of a woman who’s affection is ‘so great that it spills into possessive violence’ becomes idealized into a promising fantasy.

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Not into that at all

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If she cares enough about me that she stalks me, I’m going to be so down bad for her lmao

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Affection wasn’t something I was used to at the time and I tried to explain that to her but she thought I was making excuses. I just became used to the idea of being a tool because people hammered the idea in over and over to the point I just rationalized negative treatment as effort. I think I assumed that being that thing for people to mistreat would be the equivalent of taking one for the team or something. I don’t even know anymore its just the only thing I expect from people

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Insecurity. Never had anyone feel that crazy about me I guess 🤷

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I think most men are joking, women are way more into this than men are

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Because it seems hot at first until reality hits

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