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why do men still persist after girls say no, my friend had to tell a guy no 4 times even after she said she was a virgin and didn’t want to have sex yet and he still said he’d be “gentle” ughhh!!

Anonymous 4w

Some are possessed by a lust demon. Or a pride demon… or a combination of the two… maybe sprinkle in a bit of false envy for the guys who think getting laid will somehow fill the void believing such a thing makes the world value them.

Anonymous 4w

Because they don’t understand or value consent.

Anonymous 4w

Idk I don’t know what other guys think

Anonymous

#2 4w

really? i think it’s much simpler, like aren’t they just dumb and literally don’t know how to take no for an answer, and they think with their dicks

Anonymous

OP 4w

I mean I’m looking at it through a very ancient lens but the concept is sound. If the concept of “chastity” is frustrating one or several of the 7 prime sins that’s what it would be. You also appear to be humble which is the counter to pride.

Anonymous

#3 4w

i mean you could say what you think? this comment does literally nothing

Anonymous

OP 4w

Perhaps they think she is playing hard to get

Anonymous

#3 4w

ig but i think when it gets to saying no three times and explaining it’s her first time, like i think some men are just forceful in nature even if they don’t intend to be

Anonymous

#4 4w

i mean yeah that’s evident, but i just don’t understand why? like is it the way they’re raised or do they learn to stop understanding consent. bc my parents taught me growing up when someone says stop or “i don’t like that” you stop