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Anonymous 3w

He’s not wrong at all….

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Anonymous 3w

Real and True

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Anonymous 3w

I’ve had a similar experience where a few friends confided in me that made it more real for me. Will def make me very protective of my future daughter. However I will say when that guy mentioned a girl will even run into guys “like his friends growing up”. I am not friends with creepy or otherwise dangerous guys. In some circles it’s probably seen as normal but just don’t be in those circles

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Anonymous 3w

What happened to “we don’t need no man”? Men are taught growing up to protect and provide (or they should be) then we get shat on our whole lives for being men. Do yall want our help or not I’m confused?

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Anonymous 3w

Not a question

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Like there will always be dangerous evil people who will try to harass or attack women just like there are people who steal or murder, and there are circles of people who are all psychopaths.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Like I’ve never really liked the term patriarchy because in my eyes it views it as a “societal” problem instead of creepy men who need to face the consequences of their actions. If the focus is more on personal accountability, there will be more deterrents or more consistently applied punishments that will hopefully help to decrease it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Also I strongly believe in a good upbringing in a loving family helps as well, men receiving guidance like that forms into people where stuff like that is unthinkable. (Also holy yapping lol)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

I think most “man hating” is very much an online thing. Especially online people tend to exaggerate or say crazy stuff for clicks so if they are trying to bring attention to like sexual assault against women by men they’ll say some broad generalization. It’s not right but it’s not worth taking it personally just focus on being a good person yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Exactly, I was never friends with those kinds of guys. I think the guy in the video was just projecting there.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

this guy did not watch the video

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

I know it’s a late comment but yeah I see it. I think a lot of it probably has to do with, sort of a reluctance to call out a pejorative group you’re in. Like, a lot of white people get uncomfortable if you talk about the history of colonialism with stuff like ‘white people enslaved the world for hundreds of years’ because it feels wrong. I think probably there’s a similar issue with getting men on board with this idea. It’s hard to think ‘men are dangerous’ if you’re a man.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Protect women from what.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

cold starvation

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

You avoiding the obvious answer

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

I gave the obvious answer. Sorry it wasn’t the one you wanted so you could frame men as inherently violent and evil in spite of all the good we do every day.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Lol strawman

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

You are quite literally strawmanning half of humanity

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

You are making up a person to get mad at lmfao. I don’t believe what you think I believe

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

Please take your hate elsewhere, we get enough as it is.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

We all see what you are doing, and we’re genuinely tired of it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

I don’t hate men as a group. But you’re too wrapped up in your emotions to do anything but extrapolate my comment into thinking I’m a boogeyman man-hater

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

You don’t? Then why would you imply anything other than cold starvation is the “obvious answer”?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Because women don’t need men to protect themselves from those things lmao. The most significant thing a man can protect a woman from is other men. That’s what this whole video is about, the creepy guy didn’t stop until he came back. Saying “what happened to we don’t need no men” is galling because it’s men who cause these problems in the first place. Now this is the part that many men get defensive about, because they take it personally rather than noticing, “yeah, a lot of men are shitty”

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

And that’s the thing, we APPRECIATE the men who get it and who do protect us from the shitty men

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

If you would take two seconds to listen instead of immediately getting defensive

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

The reason you “don’t need men to protect yourselves from those things” is because men spent literally thousands of years inventing and building the vast infrastructure of civilization from scratch for the comfort of their wives and children. The fact that you see other men as your single greatest threat in life is really a testament to just how much we have done for you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Oh brother I just knew you were gonna be one of those types

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

To deny this is to discard men entirely. You deny our value and our purpose in life. You cast aside our incalculable labor and sacrifice with a sneer, which, if you ask me, is tantamount to hatred.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

I don’t care what you think of me, it’s clear that you hate me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Oh my god you want to be a victim so bad. Why would I hate you, you’re just annoying 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

You would hate me because it enables you to focus on something other than your own failings and flaws.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

“Some men build a lot of stuff that we use now so you can’t talk about how shitty certain men are” get a grip bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

You’re bad at this

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

Protect yourself next time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

How you felt saying that

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

I don’t hate you bro. I wish you the best 😊

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

You think I feel good about this? I’m sorry for you. I pray that you stop having so much contempt for others.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Wait… you’re baiting LMAO. Dammit you got me for a while

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