Ask Men on Sidechat | Me and my gf were talking about her past and I found out that she still had one of her old toxic hookups as her snap friend. She removed him after I asked her too and she says she didn’t interact with him at all and just forgot about him to delete.

Sidechat

Download

Join communities on Sidechat Download

Ask Men 2w

Me and my gf were talking about her past and I found out that she still had one of her old toxic hookups as her snap friend. She removed him after I asked her too and she says she didn’t interact with him at all and just forgot about him to delete.

Anonymous 2w

tbh im in a relationship and i haven't deleted old hookups bc i forgot and don't really want to bother with it. i don't plan on messaging them even if they message me. i think it's very plausible that they just stopped talking and she forgot to unadd him or didn't bother with it

Anonymous 2w

Is this weird behavior? Since I would think someone would have deleted their old hookups/exes from all socials once things ended ? Especially when they ended on a bad note. This all happened a little more than a year before she knew me

Anonymous 2w

I don’t personally think you have anything to worry about. Personally I don’t really unadd or block people, if I don’t want to snap or talk to someone I just won’t. I’m not gonna sit down and figure out everyone who wronged me and remove them from my socials when I’ve already removed them from my mind

Anonymous

OP 2w

I mean, how often do you go through all of your different contacts and social media pages to purge all the people you don’t talk to anymore?

Anonymous

#3 2w

Don’t get me wrong, I have personally been in casual relationships before and I still had past ppl on my social media when I started dating my gf. Only cuz I forgot they existed. But my concern was cuz this person she was hookup partners with was a shitty person and she hadn’t removed him from her friends list after she stopped seeing him. It’s the “shitty person” part not being removed that I was worried about