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I had to cut off my favorite guy friend of 7 years so, looking for new one that won't leave me or date a girl that makes him get rid of me
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Anonymous 7w

L

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Anonymous 7w

Grow up, as you mature having a ton of friends of an opposite gender is weird.

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Anonymous 6w

I hate to break this to you, but no one wants to be just your favorite guy friend. The guys who want something similar to that, want you to be their partner. And if you don’t want them to be your partner, they will leave you when they find someone else who does.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

I don't even have a ton of friends did to began with.... so that's why this stung

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

That’s understandable, but you have to put it into a different perspective. Do you have feelings for him? Probably not. But that could be hard for his new gf to believe, and to avoid drama or tension, he’s doing what he has to for the sake of his relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

I'm not made at him... I understand which is why I just ended the friendship

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

😐

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Even if their new partner likes you and doesn’t make him get rid of you, your friendship won’t be the same anymore. Their life will re-prioritize around their new partner, and you will always be an afterthought.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Reply okay with that, I naturally take a back seat. As long as they don't make false promises which this one did I'm good

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