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Am i crazy for these?
7 upvotes, 27 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Men. "Am i crazy for these?"
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Anonymous 4w

“No septum” borrrrrrrring

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Anonymous 4w

yeah sex is too important to me so i'm not waiting til marriage, and i'm not taking my husband's last name. at least professionally, and i think our kids shoukd hyphenate. i'm also not single so like idrc but i feel like those are things you'll run into problems with them most. also "hasn't been with everyone on earth" is very vague. do you mean sexually? or just romantically?

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Anonymous 4w

Seems like a standard southern christian set of requirements. Some of those views are “dated” but do you.

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Anonymous 4w

They all seem good except for the last name and waiting until marriage

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Anonymous 4w

All guys are racist lmao

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Anonymous 4w

Sounds like me, but I’m not southern or white

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Anonymous 4w

(Unless you got cancer)💀💀😂

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Anonymous 4w

I don’t think don’t think it’s a difficult list to work around, but finding that meets every last criteria from the start may be tricky. In particular, you will find guys that get annoyed by the last name stuff.

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Anonymous 4w

Why is “doesn’t make stupid decisions” in asterisks?

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Anonymous 4w

No but ur phrasing and the fact that you have this list does seem off

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Anonymous 4w

All reasonable to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

What phrasing? It was from a trend on tiktok

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I am the guy 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I respect you for wanting your last name. Maybe I’m delusional, but I feel like women are more willing to take their husband’s last name so that shouldn’t be a big issue.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I'm not on tiktok but like "doesn't make stupid decisions", "not drug addict" yes those are reasonable things but it sounds like an immature way to say what you're trying to say but that's just how I read it idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

This is a yy post not a formal document 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

also no septum piercing is ridiculous that is the one thing on the list that doesn't determine someone's personality really

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

😭😭🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yeah I'm not saying write an essay but the phrasing is just off

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Means that people in my life have been doing that lately so i wanted to stress it extra

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Ah ok, and to answer your question, I didn’t see anything that I thought was that bad/too high of standards or anything like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

But either way if you hold yourself to this same standard then ur fine

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

How is this racist 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Sorry thought you were a girl posting this

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

That still DOES NOT MAKE THIS RACIST

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Dude everyone is racist, it’s ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

😭

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