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how am i meant to just be okay with my long distance bf going out bar hopping for 5/6 hrs every weekend with no updates
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Anonymous 1w

If you aren’t okay with it then break up.

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Anonymous 1w

i have his location but still feel uncomfortable not ever knowing anything and his friends r all single

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Anonymous 1w

tell him u want updates and if he doesnt start giving u updates then break up

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Anonymous 1w

yeah i would break up ngl

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Anonymous 1w

Break up

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Anonymous 1w

Leave that man alone, he’s hanging with the bros having fun

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

every single weekend? last weekend he went out at 8pm and got back from the casino at 6am

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

single behavior to me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

so fun fact u can hang out with the bros and like still update ur girlfriend

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

thank u! i think ima just be single which definitely ruins some plans but i’ve literally been begging for updates for a year now and every time it’s “im never on my phone when im with my friends” “im just having fun”

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

You’re single for a reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

and what does she get from an update when we’re long distance? She can get an update the next day when im sober

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

just the re assurance that you're okay bro?? have you never had anxiety for the well being of someone u care abt before? like my girl and i aren't even long distance but i don't like to go out as much as she does and she still sends me updates. it's all abt communication

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

nah this aint it. communicate, and only break up if he still wont respect you

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Anonymous replying to -> vangogh 1w

been communicating how i feel for a year now..

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

ok yeah break up

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