Ask Men on Sidechat | (1)Men pls don’t approach girls with obvious flirting or compliments. Most women would rather be approached with a conversation to see if we are compatible. If you only like me bc of the way I look how do you know you actually like me? How can I decide if

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Ask Men 8w

(1)Men pls don’t approach girls with obvious flirting or compliments. Most women would rather be approached with a conversation to see if we are compatible. If you only like me bc of the way I look how do you know you actually like me? How can I decide if

Anonymous 8w

How tf else am I supposed to decide who to approach besides using looks? Looks are all I have to go on.

Anonymous 8w

You put a shiny object out for display of course youre going to receive more attention. This is easier said than done, I wish more guys actually understand what youre saying but most guys are literally too stuck in their head to even be “normal”. Most guys are trapped in a negative feedback loop or don’t believe its possible to go further past a quick compliment/catcall, which is why that happens

Anonymous 8w

(2) I want to go on a date when all you’ve said it “wow you’re gorgeous. Can I get your number” please start with something like “oh I’ve read that book. Do you enjoy it?” Etc. start a simple relaxed conversation. Get to know me. Also I’m typically approached when my boobs are out or something and that says a lot about the men who are doing the approaching. Approach girls in a more casual way and you will see a better success rate.

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Anonymous 8w

That’s why you text her and talk first? I don’t know anyone who goes up and asks for a date first thing

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#3 8w

Okay maybe it’s an exaggeration but genuinely it’s within the first minute of the convo in 80% of situations I’ve been in