If telling the truth is “inceley,” then I’m the biggest incel in the world 🤷‍♂️

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woman here but I think the majority of the reason behind that sentiment comes from men simply being selfish and not trying. like if a man is trying his best giving it his all we aren’t likely to trash talk him about being bad at it.

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Also please don’t dogpile on me, I know lots of men don’t even try or care and that is an issue 100%. Just saying that sometimes men are trying and it’s just biologically complicated and takes some practice

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This isn’t a question

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I think it's be good here to remember that two things can be true at once. "Men are bad at sex" as a blanket statement is false, but there's a kernel or truth to it in that the society we live in prioritizes the male orgasm over the female. Patriarchal society is necessarily going to lead to more people knowing how to please a man than a woman; I disagree that one is easier than the other, both are things you have to learn to do, it's just more likely that you'll know the one society prioritizes

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