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If ur a single guy, did u give up dating?
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Yes
No
Thinking abt it
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Anonymous 3w

Women are impossible to attract

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Anonymous 3w

i’m not attractive at all by any metric so i gave up for the sake of those around me and myself

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Anonymous 3w

Yeah, tbh at this point I just assume I’m not worthy of love or something

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Anonymous 3w

For a while I did. I was in no position to be dating anybody for a couple years.

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Anonymous 3w

I think I’m attractive but lowkey I’ve given up because of myself I feel like I’m too much in my own bubble head down and not even in the environments so I just accepted it for now

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Anonymous 3w

you have to start seeing women as people

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Anonymous 3w

Meh not as much as y‘all

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Unfortunately not that simple but it’s def a start!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Why do women think this is the one and only thing holding every lonely guy back, and that when they fix it, they’ll be able to pull every woman in the universe? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

No literally. Like my best friends are women and I love them so much (platonically) but that doesn’t mean I pull at all 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

bc that genuinely where it starts... parts of why im with my boyfriend is bc of the way he treated me early on in the relationship, and the way he treats his mother and sister. he was so respectful actually i thought he could've been gay and wasn't attracted too me 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Yes this is how I get described but I can’t pull 🤧perhaps I’m too picky idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Except rocky relationship with my mom but not important rn…

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

that also could be it, my bf is also a lot older than me (not in a concerning way only 7 years) and he was just raised to be a gentleman. he also had a fat crush on me before we dated and i had no clue until he started to show up at my work lmao. i will advise tho maybe don't do that, i told him it was sweet and flattering but most other girls would've found it creey

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Idk 🤷‍♂️ I’m like 1/11 on asking out girls in my life but idk I am always super respectful and asking permission for everything but that seems to turn ppl off 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Trust me 6 is right. If it were that simple I might’ve gone on a date by now

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

It’s def a leg up no doubt but it’s not that easy at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

It’s the absolute bare minimum. It will not get you anywhere, it’s just basic human decency

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I mean it will help if u find someone to keep them 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

i asked my boyfriend out! maybe the same will happen to you! he didn't want to cross the boundaries bc he was unsure if i wanted to date or be friends.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

9/10 men will never be asked out lol but we can dream

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Hopefully that time it isn’t a joke when I get asked out lol

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