
that also could be it, my bf is also a lot older than me (not in a concerning way only 7 years) and he was just raised to be a gentleman. he also had a fat crush on me before we dated and i had no clue until he started to show up at my work lmao. i will advise tho maybe don't do that, i told him it was sweet and flattering but most other girls would've found it creey