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Was casually talking to a guy, good chemistry in person, convo faded after I suggested hanging next week. Haven’t heard from him since. Best move to maximize chances he circles back?
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Anonymous 5w

Why would you want him to circle back

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Anonymous 5w

indifference, no matter how difficult, is honestly a power move

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Anonymous 5w

He ghosted you and you still want him? Have some self respect man.

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Anonymous 4w

If you had good chemistry in person, is there an activity or event you are likely to see him in person at?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I really liked his personality and caught feelings

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I see. Well I guess u can shoot one more text? It won’t hurt but eventually if it keeps going like this it may not be a match

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I don’t wanna spam him though, and idk what I’d say to make him want to circle back

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

So just no texting no contact at all? That’s what I’ve been doing for about a week

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

yes. it might take longer than a week to work but u still have self respect

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

I know normally I’d just move on, but I just do really like his personality and I didn’t take him seriously enough before I met him irl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Hence why I said 1 message. Then leave it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Probably out at bars but I wouldn’t want him to think I’m stalking him

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