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Ask Men 9w
Im 19 and a complete virgin. Be honest does being in a relationship with a woman like me make yall uncomfortable? Do you want a woman with more experience? In a relationship setting…
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Anonymous 9w

I don’t have very much experience either so I might prefer to be with someone as such

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Anonymous 9w

Idc if someone’s a virgin or has a high body count all I care about is that their with me now, and that they feel comfortable and safe

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Anonymous 9w

Well I’m waiting till marriage and prefer someone who does the same, unless she’s older than me and previously married or something

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Anonymous 9w

You’re what men want

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Anonymous 9w

It never bothered me, as long as you’re both happy together that’s what guys are looking for. If they seem like they care abt you’re body count they either only care about sex or it’s a situation where the girl has like 90

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Anonymous 9w

No, I prefer a high body count but that's my own weirdness. Most people would *prefer* a virgin

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Anonymous 9w

I like older women so idk but it’s not a problem to me.🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

Men should not be wanting a girl JUST bc she’s a virgin

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

For myself at least it’s abt having fidelity to my beliefs, & less so virginity so much as an indication of someone else’s dedication to God, which plays a rly important role in my choice of a partner. That’s why I said if she was married prior (I’d assume not a virgin) that’s okay too since it’s abt someone who respects God by only having sex in marriage, which means we’re still on the same page morally. Most ppl our age in college aren’t prev married tho so “virgin” is a shorthand for that

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

The only reason I’m asking is because the man I’m talking to has 3 bodies and I wanted to wait till marriage( Idk if I still will) he just said he’s apprehensive abt having sex bc he doesn’t want to hurt me physically. I was just wondering on a man’s part if that is a whole truth or if there might be something else deterring him.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I had 3 bodies when I met my current gf who was a virgin when I met her and honestly it didn’t bother either of us in the slightest. I’ve been with her over 2 years now and I can honestly say she’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me and I can guarantee you not once has the idea of how many guys she has or hasn’t been with crossed my mind when falling in love with her

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

Awww I’m happy for yall and thank you for the advice I truly appreciate it!

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