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I’ve been seeing this guy for about a month now, dates now twice a week. When’s the right time to ask the question? I’m pretty sure he’s into me like that (bf gf) but I don’t want to make it awkward
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Anonymous 11w

It depends on how you typically do things, but if I were in your shoes, I'd sit down with him on another one of your dates and explain how you feel right to his face. Dating and romance IS awkward, and that's what's so fun and beautiful about it. You're basically saying "I want to be able to be vulnerable and awkward and weird around you" TLDR: Be honest, bear your soul, and be cringe!

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Anonymous 11w

lowk if gets passed 2/3 months be up front - don’t play games bc it will just go on til someone gets hurt. ask where he sees this going and say where u want it to go - if not on the same page then that’s that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I’m not playing games. I see it working out for us, I’m Just not sure how to ask: I’ve never had a bf

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

✨Just ask da question✨

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

I just don’t want to mess it up somehow 😭 like literally what do I even say

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

I didn’t mean for it to sound like you’re the one playing games!! I meant be upfront so he DOESN’T end up stringing you along + if he has a bad reaction to u asking where is this going he AINT THE ONE

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

something like hey we’ve been hanging out all the time blah blah .. I just don’t want to waste my time or yours .. where do u see this going / if anywhere

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I dotn think he is he’s very sweet we have a lot in cmon I guess I’m just waiting for the right moment?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

There is no “right moment”, But if you keep waiting around for a “right moment”, you’ll miss that any moment you could just ask the question.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Honestly yeah we’ve been vulnerable a few times already so

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Go for it! I believe in you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Our next date is outside but I guess I’ll do it after?

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