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i always see and hear men complaining abt not getting matches but whenever i do match with a mam he fails to keep the conversation up. like ask follow up questions! like why does this happen
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Anonymous 4w

Lack of conversational skills, nerves, not knowing what to say or do

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Anonymous 4w

It’s really weird talking to more and more women who say that men in general don’t ask questions. I’m a straight guy and never knew that this was such a trend

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Anonymous 4w

I never have people respond

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

it's such a problem and im tired of carrying the conversation like idk how they expect to date someone if they can't get through a conversation

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

an functional adult shouldn't lack conversational skills. if they do then the only way to get better is to have more conversations. nerves is understandable but it's a waste of my time if you're gomma be too nervous to speak to me. if you're not responding or showing interest, im going ti assume you're not into me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I’m a chronic over asker of questions and always have been so I was shocked when some girls I talk to said that they really appreciate it 🤷

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

But I have talked to people like that and it is sorta infuriating. Like you ask abt them and they talk about them and you keep waiting for them to involve you or ask you something and they never do. Makes me feel sorta foolish ngl

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