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Why does it make me "trashy" to wear tiny clothes having tits and an ass but a girl without either wearing the same looks "fashionable"
64 upvotes, 16 comments. Sidechat image post by whorehome in Ask Men. "Why does it make me "trashy" to wear tiny clothes having tits and an ass but a girl without either wearing the same looks
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Anonymous 7w

Misogyny, you’re fashionable and killing it girl

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Anonymous 7w

Bc they probably wouldn’t be leering at a woman with no tits or ass

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Anonymous 7w

Because women are mean to each other

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Anonymous 7w

Embrace it cause it’s not changing sadly

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Anonymous 7w

Tiny is be a relative term here, a tight shirt on a girl with no chest honestly just looks normal bc there’s nothing happening. A larger chest needs larger clothes or it looks purposefully used to show off physical features, which is objectively where the “trashy” part comes from.

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Anonymous 7w

If I had a 24” penis that hung out the bottom of my shorts when I walked, would that be an appropriate outfit? It’s about dressing modestly to cover your body’s proportions. I ain’t gonna say it’s always so cut and dry, but there’s definitely a happy medium.

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Anonymous replying to -> loverboy 7w

Its not just women. It’s literally even teachers OF CHILDREN that will make it seem like larger chested women are inherently more “inappropriate.” no matter what they wear.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

more like if you had a 24” penis (you couldn’t tuck) and wanted to wear sweatpants and everyone said it was inappropriate, even though every other man could wear sweatpants without it being a problem. you covered what you needed to cover, but because it’s just more visible in general, ur outfit is trashy and everyone else’s is normal

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

^^^ what #6 said

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

Also wrt to women’s clothing in particular, you’re either showing cleavage or your not. If you think it’s immodest to show cleavage then everyone women should have to wear a turtleneck or sumn, but you can’t say it’s ok for some people to show a body part just because it’s smaller

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

Tight clothes, my size or even baggy, you're gonna see that I have curves. It's inevitable, they're there. There's no "purposely showing off" when it's not like I can take my tits off and leave them at home. They will be visible no matter what I wear. Labeling someone "trashy" for having a body part they were born with is the problem.

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Anonymous replying to -> whorehome 7w

Like I said “looks” the truth is irrelevant in matters of opinion. You may not realize it but an attempt to cover your curves is more important than actually doing it. My girlfriend has been well endowed since early high school and does not wear particularly revealing or form fitting clothing. Before I even knew who she was neither me nor my friends did not think she was trashy, unlike girls who played their curves. I think I have a good perspective here having her side of the story.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

it isn’t her side of the story, you aren’t her

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

and you literally said she never was able to wear form fitting clothing, the only options are baggy clothes. but if someone wore a normal form fitting tshirt, you get comments

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

Most girls were brought up to be ashamed of it. She likely is no different and may even be embarrassed to wear what she wants because of it. You're saying that had she worn something revealing then she wouldve then been "trashy?" Would her personality change too? Would how she is as a person change? Because she chose tighter clothes? Likely not. I'm the same person regardless of how I choose to decorate the body I was given. If she were to wear a tight shirt one day would you think less of her?

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Anonymous replying to -> whorehome 7w

If she dressed to play her appearance then yes, like I said it was before I’d known her so idk, but I wouldn’t have been attracted to her if she did. I’ve talked with her abt these things and I’m just giving you the opinion I’ve gained after my and her experiences, sorry you don’t like it 🤷‍♂️

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