
more like if you had a 24” penis (you couldn’t tuck) and wanted to wear sweatpants and everyone said it was inappropriate, even though every other man could wear sweatpants without it being a problem. you covered what you needed to cover, but because it’s just more visible in general, ur outfit is trashy and everyone else’s is normal
Tight clothes, my size or even baggy, you're gonna see that I have curves. It's inevitable, they're there. There's no "purposely showing off" when it's not like I can take my tits off and leave them at home. They will be visible no matter what I wear. Labeling someone "trashy" for having a body part they were born with is the problem.
Like I said “looks” the truth is irrelevant in matters of opinion. You may not realize it but an attempt to cover your curves is more important than actually doing it. My girlfriend has been well endowed since early high school and does not wear particularly revealing or form fitting clothing. Before I even knew who she was neither me nor my friends did not think she was trashy, unlike girls who played their curves. I think I have a good perspective here having her side of the story.
Most girls were brought up to be ashamed of it. She likely is no different and may even be embarrassed to wear what she wants because of it. You're saying that had she worn something revealing then she wouldve then been "trashy?" Would her personality change too? Would how she is as a person change? Because she chose tighter clothes? Likely not. I'm the same person regardless of how I choose to decorate the body I was given. If she were to wear a tight shirt one day would you think less of her?
If she dressed to play her appearance then yes, like I said it was before I’d known her so idk, but I wouldn’t have been attracted to her if she did. I’ve talked with her abt these things and I’m just giving you the opinion I’ve gained after my and her experiences, sorry you don’t like it 🤷♂️