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He broke up with me (4 1/2 yr relationship) he keeps hitting me up and sending me videos with mixed signals. Does he still want me or is he playing. Can I get him back or no?

Anonymous 21h

Dude he doesn’t deserve a second chance he left you lol and then to add insult to injury realized you were better than all the other options

Anonymous 15h

After 4 & 1/2 years, man has seen you colors, dude should have a pretty good idea if he wants to commit to a relationship with you

Anonymous 1d

You were together 4 1/2 years, you know him better than any of us do

Anonymous 20h

Don’t do it💀 It will turn into a shitty cycle.

Anonymous

#2 1d

I’m more or so asking what are some ways a girl ex got you back

Anonymous

OP 21h

Hasn’t happened to me personally, I’ve only ever had one girlfriend, we never broke up, and we’re getting married next year. But your best bet is to just have an honest, straightforward conversation with him. How do you each feel about the way things ended, what are you each looking for now, and if those align, do you want to give it another shot?

Anonymous

OP 21h

And most of all, what’s going to be different this time around from last time?

Anonymous

#3 18h

Yeah, any guy that makes a mistake is not worth dating. Especially if he realizes it and tries to fix things. Don’t worry queen; just hold out for long enough and eventually a perfect, flawless man will surely come along!

Anonymous

#5 14h

By that logic it’s okay to leave your girlfriend for someone more attractive, realize you couldn’t find someone more attractive, and come crawling back

Anonymous

#3 12h

The fuck do you want them to do, realize they couldn’t get someone better and kill themselves?