Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download

antarticcat

Operation GMMB (getting my mans back) is a go phase one complete on to phase two any other helpful tips for this operation to be successful?
upvote -21 downvote

user profile icon
Anonymous 4d

Why do you wanna get back with him? Especially if he dumped you over something as trivial as being embarrassed over a hookup?

upvote 49 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 4d

why did he break up with you in the first place?

upvote 19 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 4d

Good thing Aqua isn't here or she'd be very disappointed in you

upvote 17 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 4d

Bruh move on.

upvote 17 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 3d

Wow this is embarrassing

upvote 12 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 3d
post
upvote 11 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Well I think he was a little embarrassed after the first time we hooked up which he did not need to be

upvote -4 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

I thought he did great and looked great but he’s has been a little distant since but I just texted him and told him I thought the experience was a 9/10 because it really want bad and that’s got him blushing

upvote -6 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Now for phase two starting a streak again I think

upvote -4 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

good god you are hopeless

upvote 35 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Wasn’t bad is what I meant

upvote -4 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> inphochewated 4d

Well I have been talking to him for over a year and I think he is pretty cool. I feel like part of it is my fault because I should have told him I thought it was good because it was honestly I didn’t say it was bad but I feel like it was just miscommunication

upvote -9 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

No she wouldn’t

upvote -3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

How do you know

upvote 13 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

Because I know her but she lives in the past

upvote -4 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Nope I am getting my mans

upvote -2 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

Nope, I’m getting him back he even thanked me and said I hope it was a good learning experience

upvote -2 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

With the 😊

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

How do you know her

upvote 12 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

I knew her as a person

upvote -5 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

But I am better than her

upvote -5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Just bc they sent 😊 doesn't mean they wanna get back together with you. Im giving you the same advice I give everyone else I give when they make a post like this. Which is move on.

upvote 14 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

Well, we still text each other. We still follow each other on everything.

upvote -2 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

So far my plan is working

upvote -2 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

He said exactly this “Thx ☺️ I hope u found it a good learning experience” he is a shy guy I think but he does yap a lot

upvote -3 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

That is definitely a good sign though in the right direction

upvote -3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Are you sure? Or are you applying your bias to it?

upvote 13 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

Well, it’s definitely not a bad sign if he really didn’t want to see me or if he thought it was extremely bad, he would’ve just removed me

upvote -1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

I think you’re trying to apply bias in my opinion

upvote -1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

I would say right now the door is like not closed, but not all the way open

upvote 0 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Or he would’ve just left me on opened

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Don't try and turn the tables here Aqua. Im giving you the same treatment I give everyone else when they ask this question. These questions are meant to make you think.

upvote 15 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

No, you are definitely biased. I even did a poll on this.

upvote 0 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

We definitely would not be texting if he wasn’t still interested

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

You can assume all you want Aqua, but I am merely trying to get you to think. If you can't do that then I can't help you.

upvote 18 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

In addition you asked for advice and I gave you advice.

upvote 16 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

Still you have bias

upvote -2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

How do I have bias? Explain that.

upvote 14 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

I could text him right now lol probably will sent a cute selfie

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

That doesn't explain how I have bias tho. Like you texting him has nothing to do with this.

upvote 7 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

Yeah it does my whole post is about him lol and my plan is about him lol

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

And you didn't like my answer of telling you to move on and me asking you if you're looking at it through your own biased lens of what you think. So tell me how do I have bias if I am asking you questions.

upvote 8 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

He honestly just had a little trouble fitting it in and was a little embarrassed by it I can tell but his embarrassment will blow over it wasn’t even bad Theresa nothing to be embarrassed by it was good

upvote -1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> inphochewated 4d

Important question. Do you think Aqua is being honest?

upvote 19 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> inphochewated 4d

Because I like him

upvote -8 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 4d

And miss him

upvote -5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 4d

Find mental help

upvote 26 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 4d

You don’t get girls because you objectify women and a horrible incel I get you have no experience at all with relationships but that doesn’t mean I’m being dishonest Inreally like this guy and trying to get things to work out

upvote -6 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

And really like this guy he really fine too

upvote -3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Its not about the sex. Stop looking at it through the "I can get back together with him lens" and stop looking at through the logic lenses

upvote 14 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

Again the poll states different and he does. And his body language did

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Again the poll is heavily biased with your own opinion with a leading question.

upvote 15 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

Literally said what happens in the situation you just don’t want it to work out so bad lol don’t know why even though it’s looking very good so far

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Literally has your bias in it. You are not reliable source in this situation. If we have his perspective as well then we can give you a better answer. But you are giving us what he says the way you're interpreting it

upvote 12 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Aqua “I don’t call people incels” Also aqua:

upvote 27 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

You just don't want it to work out lol we literally still text everyday and I feel like he's starting to warm up again

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Like I said before this is the advice that I give everyone who makes a post like this. Why? Because this ain't a movie and people need a reality check sometimes. You are not the chosen one like the voices say you are

upvote 12 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

The reality is this is my life and I have been talking to him for over a year lol

upvote 2 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

And still talking and it’s going good that’s the reality

upvote -2 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 4d

(1. I didn’t even know this was Aqua as I’ve been largely out of touch on the aquatic politics for the last few months 😭 (2. I assumed information was being at the very least withheld and I was gonna try to get to the bottom of it cuz I’m a nosy ass nigga ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

upvote 37 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> inphochewated 4d

Fair

upvote 12 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Perhaps he realized how awful you are. Like slander someone you know nothing about kind of awful.

upvote 12 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 4d

I they actually told me I’m cool I’m not awful to them. I’m actually very nice to them. The difference is they are good people. That’s why I’m nice to them however, you are a horrible person. If I’m being honest, you sit online and try to dehumanize girls objectify them you’re just a classic incel who spends their life doing nothing you haven’t done one positive thing for anyone and you don’t know me by the way

upvote -5 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

I didn’t even know why you replied on here on the first place for one thing there’s a reason why you haven’t been in a relationship second thing you don’t have any experience, so why are you even commenting That’s right just to be negative just like you always are because that’s all you give is negativity

upvote -5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Find one post where Piro does this. Then Ill show you the posts where you do what you say he's doing.

upvote 18 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Had to edit this because I realize I made a typo earlier

upvote -2 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Example this post

upvote -2 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

He literally contributes to nothing

upvote -1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Any helpful advice or answer my question

upvote -2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Find another post Aqua. Cause you're clearly trying to defame his character here.

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

So you decided to assume that he's never been in a relationship? How would you feel if people assumed shit about you? Like what if I assumed that you like doing butt stuff and kept saying it?

upvote 2 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

No, I’m not assuming I can just tell

upvote -1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Nobody would wanna date a POS like that

upvote -1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

I don’t save a screenshot post so this post is good enough, but I’m sure there will be more where he’s acting like that objectifying

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Oh Im sorry Im not going to just take your word for it I want an actual photo proof of him doing all the things you say he is. What reason do I have to believe you?

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Honey you assumed that I was a republican and you were wrong. You can't tell shit. Do you not remember when he had a gf on here?

upvote -2 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

He tries to invalidate of there sexual harassment/ assault experiences and call them Amber heard he tried to compare me to heard once I’m not even a white woman though nor have I lied about an experience

upvote -1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Talk creepy about women a lot

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Where? I have never once seen him do this. Provide a screenshot or you're lying to try and give yourself more credibility.

upvote 0 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

Are you capable of reading? I literally said I don’t take screenshots.

upvote 3 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

But he was weird for doing that not in a good weird way

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Then why should I believe you at your word if you can't back up what you say? Your word is as good as dogshit on the sidewalk if you can't provide proof or evidence instead of "trust me bro"

upvote 5 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

It’s literally evidence in this post that he just treats him like shit

upvote 1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

He never had a girlfriend on here

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Oh you mean that he is addressing who you are really Aqua and the shit that you've gotten up to and the shit you've started? If you can't handle being called out the door is a few buttons away. Its called deleting your account bc you can't take accountability for what you've said. If anything you are Donald Trump the way you "misremember" shit then try and change the narrative. You want a noble peace prize?

upvote 7 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

Nope you are like Trump trying take peoples freedom of speech, same thing as a Jimmy Kimmel situation

upvote 0 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

I am nothing like Trump and you know that you’re just trying to push that you’re like to jump on me honestly, I’m a black woman a lesbian governor from Oregon. I was in the foster care system. I’m not privilege I was adopted at least

upvote -1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

I had a very rough beginning of my life my birth mom did drugs Trump doesn’t give a shit about people like me.

upvote 1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

But I am breaking the cycle

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

You tried to ad hominem attack Piro. One of Trump's common tactics. Such as "crooked Hilary" "sleepy joe" "sloppy steve". Your argument holds no real substance

upvote 6 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

And so are my siblings and cousins pretty much all of us are going to college

upvote 1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

Well, I’m not lying. He was creepy towards women and compared women expressing their experiences to Amber heard which try to compare me to Amber, even though I’m nothing I care

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 4d

Once again you have not provided any proof besides saying "look here" instead of finding a post where you are not involved and he is acting the way you say he is. The "trust me bro" holds no power here as it wouldn't hold power in a research paper.

upvote 7 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

Remember the time you tried to slut shame a girl for wanting plastic surgery on her 🐱 and you compared her to a porn star.

post
upvote 4 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 3d

No, didn’t shame. A girl I get that you’re a hateful person, but that is not what happened I was just saying that she doesn’t need a man opinions or plastic surgery but then she mentioned it. Pain thing apparently.

upvote -1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

But in reality as long as it’s not my body, that’s getting ruined I don’t care personally I would never get one because I don’t like the way they look

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

To paraphrase what you said "its your body and you have a choice, but not really its my choice"

post
upvote 6 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Looks like you don’t have reading comprehension. Because clearly that does not say your body my choice.

upvote -2 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

I think you’re just an idiot

upvote -2 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

If you read the context of the post, I think that person was just trying to say don’t get plastic surgery for stupid reason because then you’ll just regret it in the future because your body is not a trend

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

Will you stop looking in the mirror when you say that?

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

If you continue to look at the context of the post they state that they were thinking about it since they were 14 years old and that it caused them pain so they were doing it to relieve that pain. In which you proceeded to try and "save them" as you put it. When they made it clear that you were not saving them

upvote 1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Did you not even read a single thing I said? She clearly stated couple days later than it was for pain apparently

upvote 0 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

Don’t you have anything better to do honestly than being a dumb ass online? The only reason why I am on here is because I’m getting ready for work and then my first homework assignment is due this evening

upvote -1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d
post
upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

I can say the same about you. And if you want I can keep pulling screenshots that contradict what you say <3

post
upvote 5 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Ok cool? Idgaf. There’s nothing you can really do to change or contradict what I say. I’m allowed to have opinions as surgery as a girl I don’t have to be forced to like a certain type of plastic surgery.

upvote 0 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

Because honestly, I don’t think most of them look that great

upvote 1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

Which is why I’m going into pediatric endocrinology and not plastics

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

Im not saying you're not allowed to have opinions. When I am saying is that during that whole entire post you were disrespecting the OP's opinion and their wishes bc you didn't agree with it. The op literally said to stop forcing your opinion on them to you.

upvote 1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Not really she talked to me later about why she thought she was doing it first, but that’s that. It’s the end of it

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

Im sorry Aqua, but thats not what happened. You begrudgingly apologized to her for trying to force your opinion on her. And even then it wasn't sincere. Like you can try and say thats what happened all you want, but the text says differently. I can show you exactly what I mean if you would like.

upvote 4 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Just because you didn’t see it doesn’t mean that’s not what happened conversation over read the room

upvote -2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 3d

No conversation is not over. The fact that you're trying to end this conversation tells me that you're lying through your teeth about what actually happened and you know what actually happened you just don't want to admit it.

upvote 1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Dude, can you just stfu already know something that happened I don’t know like last year. I literally already talked to her and it’s been over and done.

upvote 0 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

Go find something better to do because you’re honestly just trying to look for an excuse to argue

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

I am not. The original thing that you started was by saying Piro was _____ in a long list without any evidence to back it up besides "trust me bro". Then Piro showed an example of you being all the things that you called him. So if anything Aqua you are running away again bc you know you're wrong

upvote 1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

No, not really lol para snake didn’t even have anything. There’s like literally nothing wrong with that post. I am not going back to school, but it wasn’t even bad. But anyways, I’m nothing like pirate snake and there’s a reason why I said those things about him.

upvote 0 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

I’ve never validated anyone of their experiences ever or called them a liar

upvote 0 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

Nor have I been creepy towards girls on here making weird sexual comments towards them

upvote -4 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

And this is why you can't take accountability for your actions and you have to try and change the narrative. I wish I could say I have pity for you, but I can't when you're undeserving of it.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

And you haven't provided any proof of him acting this way towards women. Besides just saying "trust me bro" essentially

upvote 1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Because I don’t save screenshots? Also, just because there’s no pictures or anything does that mean it didn’t happen would you say a victim is lying if she finally comes out about it a year later? There’s many SA victims walking around feeling like they won’t be believed and that’s why there’s still rapist on the street.

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

Oh Im sorry is he being accused of these things? This is something that is happening online where it is easy to simply screenshot it and report it. To try and say that this is comparable to being accused of sa/h and rape is despicable. And in the past you have proven to be an unreliable source so when asked for proof we mean provide proof.

upvote 3 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Can you just stfu already honestly clearly no reading comprehension again, and you don’t seem like the type of person to believe a victim

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

By comparing this to sa/h I feel like you have just invalidated my experience and others experience all bc you don't want to take the time to find any other evidence of this happening.

upvote 4 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Not Talking about your experiences it has nothing to do with this never did once mention an experience you have. Bring it back to topic. I have experience with myself, but did I bring it up no?

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

Honey you compared not believing you to not believing sa/h and rape victims. This can simply be resolved if you are able to find proof outside of this post where you claim he is being these things. I was simply stating that by you comparing your refusal to present any other evidence and defer to claiming this was like not believing sa/h and rape victims it feels like you are invalidating their experiences and my experience bc this is not on the same level as that. Is that clear?

upvote 2 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Well, that was on my OG account and I don’t have that account anymore and also a lot of the stuff is deleted on it so don’t go back looks like you would have to restore it to see it

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

You didn't answer my question. Is the point that I was trying to make clear?

upvote 6 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Store the OG account and then you’ll get all the answers. Good day.

upvote 0 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

I have to go to work

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

Doesn't answer the question I asked and I find it disappointing that you cannot acknowledge that you are invalidating people's experiences through what you said.

upvote 5 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

If anyone’s invalidating experience, is it you look at you not be believing that pirate snake was being a creep

upvote 1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

You’re an insane guy who doesn’t believe girls of their experiences

upvote 1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

Good day

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

Got it so you're deflecting instead of trying to understand my point.

upvote 6 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

And you’re the one who randomly brought up your experience, not me

upvote 0 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

The point is you support creeps?

upvote -1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

I think that’s the point

upvote 0 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

It’s been like a few post talking about the menstrual cycle and the pyrone snake goes I can smell it in the comments. It’s really weird and I don’t think it’s funny. It’s like some weird kink shit that people didn’t ask for.

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 3d

Where is your proof? Bc if this happened here then its easy to grab a screenshot. And you have a history of being an unreliable source.

upvote 7 downvote